My Grandbabies I love you and miss you!!

My grandsons! Grandma loves you and misses you a great deal! My love and hugs goes out to you. There’s not a day or night that goes by that I don’t miss you and. I look at you boys pictures each and everyday.

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric! You are not forgotten! Grandma! Is here for you! My precious grandsons I love you and miss you each and everyday. I miss you more than words can describe! Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric you boys are forever in my heart! As long as I am alive and blood flowing through my veins, I promise you I will continue to fight for you children to be released to me your maternal and biological grandmother!!!!! Love you all!

I want you all home with me! It’s because of the Oklahoma foster care DHS and the Judge Richard Kirby that you boys are still in foster care. I am your grandmother! I will never forget you! I will continue to seek help for you children! I love all of you! I pray for our family!

It’s wrong for the way that these Oklahoma people have treated you children! I just want to hold each and every one of you and take away all of that pain and suffering that you all have endured.

Grandma loves you! I send my love!

Love always your Grandmother

Farina M Thompson

Grandmother dismissed from case

Grandmother still has not been reunified with her grandsons that has been in Oklahoma Foster  Care since March  2  2006.

Grandmother, Farina Thompson continues her journey for justice. To have her family together again. Though she hasn’t reached her goal. She’s determined not to give up.  She continues to get thorough from day to day. Remembering her adorable grandsons are in placement and are counting on her to get them back home.

This is awful.

 

Grandmother persecuted

 

There’s so many nick names that our grandchildren has for calling us as grandparents. There’s hundred of names that so many grandchildren calls their loving grandma and grandpa.

When the DHS DIRECTOR- HOWARD HENDRICK, DHS SUPERVISOR- TARA J BONE, DHS DA- JANE BROWN, and the ASSOCIATE DISTRICT JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY, lose their way to do the right thing. Then that brings about corruption. It is about the children and getting them out of the system as fast and soon as possible.

5 years to bring closure to a case it very damaging to my babies. Because my grandsons, they know that Grandma is here. That’s not right at all! It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

My grandsons are loved, wanted and missed by all of our family. They have a loving home to come to.

I have relocated over 1800+ miles to be close to my boys, and to have regular visits with them.

The state has taken that away. From the beginning there were never any regular visits.

They have kept my grandsons away from me and they haven’t had any phone calls either.

Family reunification is the key and yet, As they stress it so much. Why are my grandchildren not home yet?

I have a 3 bedroom 2 bath 2 car garage home and it is over 2,000 square feet. I’ve more than enough space for my grandsons. This is wrong.

Everyone knows how rough it is for children to be left in foster care. Especially any length of time.

There is a very big problem and something needs to be done about it!

I just want my grandchildren out of the foster care system. That’s all i want is for them to be home back in my arms. With loving family as i am here and will not stop my journey to get them home.

There are Statutes and the Oklahoma Administrative Codes that aren’t being enforced. My grandchildren should have been home many moons ago.

Our civil rights and human rights has been violated. My grandbabies has been victimized by the system as well as our whole family.

I’ve spent many countless hours on the internet searching for case information, and to learn as much as i can about foster care and case-law in regards to grandchildren and grandparents. Just all issues dealing with family court judges and getting educated about the players involved with my grandsons case.

I have asked for help from many agencies, knocked on may doors, sent hundreds of faxes, and rung a many telephones, because what it going on here in the State of Oklahoma isn’t justice at all, not for along shot.

These persons that are in a position to destroy families and many children’s lives are cold-hearted folks. They think that they are untouchable. They are above the law. So to speak and by that they can abuse their authority. In the mean time can leave a trail of destruction.

It’s supposed to be about the children, In my grandsons case. That is no longer the priority. As i see it. They are focusing on me. I’m just a loving and caring grandmother, that refuses to give in to them, so that they can do what they want with my grandsons.

I’ve been targeted, and this is now a racist issue, a personal vendetta.

The Judge – Richard W Kirby, DA – Jane Brown, DHS Supervisor – Tara J Bone, and DHS Director – Howard Hendrick – has lost their way of processing and now has made it even more difficult on my grandsons, by not giving me my grandsons.

Priority should be – family reunification. Family connection and bonding. Not destroying the children’s lives. The court system and dhs has alienated me grandbabies. We haven’t seen each other in quite some time now.

My grandbabies, they all know how much i love and miss them. The family courts know that I love and miss my grandbabies. This is tragedy and emotional painful for us.

Everyone as mentioned before, they are going home every night to their babies, grandbabies, and look forward to seeing them as they walk through the door. How would they feel, If they couldn’t see their babies, or granddbabies little faces? How would they feel to be going through this ordeal as me and my grandbabies?

It’s a nightmare! A real life Horror! I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

As of 12/2009 I was denied all access to court documentation in regards to my grandsons case. I have not been allowed to receive any court papers, showing the up coming court dates. It’s only been by word of mouth. That’s not good enough.

Anyway I’m asking everyone to please pray for me and my grandchildren. We have been going through this for some time now. My grandchildren and our family has been victimized by the Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS.

Please keep the prayers coming, I thank you and do so appreciate it. God Bless.

My family, we need closure.

All I want is, to see my grandbabies,hug and be there for my grandchildren.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Love, Peace and Blessings. God Bless to all. Amen!

Thank you for taking the time to read our family story of enduring pain.

　

We as grandparents has that special bond of connection with our grandchildren. Being in our grandbabies lives are so valuable for them and us as that role model to our little ones.

Here in the state of Oklahoma where I have been for the past 2.5 – 3 years, out of love for my precious grandsons. I am being persecuted because I am fighting for my grandchildren. I will not shut up about the exposure of what’s taking place in the oklahoma family court.

My grandsons have been in the foster care system since March 2 2006. I’m the only one that’s fighting for them. We are a family and they are close to my heart. We are blood.

This is a living nightmare for me and my family.

I’m concerned about my grandsons that’s in the Oklahoma Foster Care States System. This is un called for. When children has been taken by the state, they should be trying everything to place the children with their biological family members. Here i am their maternal and biological grandmother. What they do is hinder the process. This case has been dragged out for 5 years. March 2 2011 will be five years.

I am not a felon, never been to prison. I am all that these children has to appear in court.

It’s about family and children, to be reunited to end this horrible tragedy. It’s supposed to be. You’d think.

GRANDMOTHER/ GRANDMA/ NANNIE/ NANA

Alienating My Grandchildren

Since my grandsons were taken back in 2006 of March, the Oklahoma DHS has been commiting policy and procedures violations according to their hand book OAC.

Oklahoma devious and malicious acts in the case of my grandsons are an injustice to me and my family. Our civil and human rights has been violated.

Children deserves visitation and continuous contact with their family and yet my grandsons has not had that opportunity. My grandsons don’t deserve this. Our family doesn’t deserve this.

I have been fighting for my grandsons from day one. I have moved to Oklahoma. All i see here is everything but the right thing. It’s corruption. It’s racial. It’s Personal vendetta going on here. It’s threats as well. It’s Employee’s abusing their power of their job. Their position that they hold.

Since i have been here in Oklahoma I have yet to have on  regular basis visits with my grandsons. I am very interested in the the true reason behind these folks doing this. I want answers. Not a lie. The truth. My truth is – I’m me. They are racial driven. My wanting to visit with my grandchildren should not of had a negative respons as it has in the courts. This is wrong.

Me and my grandsons has always had an existing relationship before they were taken by Oklahoma dhs back in 2006. This is no way right at all.

In the court room i have been treated like dirt. The court continues to put off the case. I am continuing to spend money. The whole time my babies are still in foster care.

My family has been hurted long enough by this corrupt system of family courts and the Oklahoma DHS. The sytem is supposed to help the families and children. To strengthened them not destroy them and alienate the babies from the family. In the case of my daughter Jamira N May, where she relinquished her parental rights – only because it was told to her that I – had helped my daughter too many times and that she had to do this on her own. Well any  mother and grandmother would help their children and grandchildren especially when it came down to getting them out of the foster care system.

I have a rented home here thats available and fully furnished and equipped for my family and the courts denied my daughter to come home where i could help be a solution to this tragedy and put an end to this. Because the courts denied this, My precious grandbabies are still in the Oklahoma foster care system. Oklahoma DHS has had my grandsons for 4 years 10months 1week 1 day.

My daughter had just been released from prison and she needed her mothers’ help. So since the courts didn’t  allowed this to take place my grown daughter grew weary and gave up. She left her babies in the foster care system. My daughter gave birth to 6 boys, only her first 5 are still in the foster care system. That is so very painful.

Just for the record my daughter Jamira N May went to prison after her children were taken from her. It was unrelated to the children being taken by Oklahoma DHS. So my daughter she needed help and as a mother i was there to help her, but the court denied me giving assitance to my daughter.

Now since that has taken place, she is no longer in the case and i am going to court on my own. From what i have been told on many occasions that i am not apart of the case. They the case workwers  of DHS doesnot give me any information on my grandchildren. I don’t get the chance to see or visit with my grandsons. Not even hug them or hear their voices. This is hard on us. We are the family unit and its being painfully destroyed by the foster care DHS/DFS/DCFS/DSS all across the U.S by these agencies having so much power and It’s killing off the american families.

I believe in my opinion it’s another form of imprisionment. This isn’t right to destroy the families as the government has allowed this to take place.

The Department of Health and Human Services should re-construct another form of family intervention to help the persons that may come in contact with issues like this. For 1 – THE FAMILY UNIT SHOULD BE PRESERVED. For 2 – FAMILY UNIT  HOLDS  THE FOUNDATION. For 3 –  THE FAMILY UNIT IS ENRICHING AND HAS HERITAGE AND UNITY. For 4 – FAMILY NEEDS TO BE WITH FAMILY. For 5 – GRANDCHILDREN NEEDS THEIR GRANDPARENTS. For 6 – GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS ARE A MUST. For 7 -THERE SHOULDN’T BE NO ADOPTION UNLESS THERE IS NO FAMILY WHAT SO EVER TO TAKE THE CHILDREN.

With that having been said- I am here in Oklahoma and has no intentions on stopping my journey on pursuing this matter of my grandchildren being returned to me and my family where these boys belong.

What i have come across since in my journey is that the DHS system will do all it can to deter you from your hard and persistent work. They will say many many nasty things in court and try to get you to be out of character. But you must hold your peace. You see,  if one allows the system to make them so mad where they will just  give up, then they can get rid of your love-ones in my case my babies. I’m not doing that. I am a very strong woman and i will be here to the last.

Oh yes, it pains me that i haven’t seen my grandsons since 2-16-10, that was the last time. That’s very hard to deal with, being right here in he same state and city for some of my babies.

It’s a tragedy as it is that my babies my grandbaies are in the sytem and out of the home from the get go. But, for the DHS system and the family courts to keep us apart that’s another issue.

My grandchildren are my life, my world and because of this awful interruption of our lives and the separation: I work even harder to not to give up hope that this will soon be over. I pray continuously.

Oklahoma DHS and the Family Courts intimidated my daughter a young woman who had just been released from prison, But! Rest Assured, I’m not going away! The State of  Oklahoma took my grandbabies and they have a grandparent that will not rest til justice prevails. I’m a registered voter, I’m no felon, I have a 3-2-2 garage home, I relocated from Reno Nevada. I am here.

The motive for the State of OKlahoma for not returning my grandkids to date – Plain Racial, Serious Issues. It’s a personal vendetta against me.

I put everything on my life- I’m not going no where with out my grandchidren. As long as The State Of Oklahoma has my Grandchildren i am here.

WE ARE A FAMILY UNIT – FAMILY IS WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND – MY GRANDSONS ARE LOVED.

Family Values or Not? What’s wrong with OKDHS?

According to  the OKDHS  agency it’s moto is to help families rebuild their lives, to make them stronger. Okdhs  are supposed to keep families together not break them up.  With the situation that i am having with this state isn’t showing me any resolution to keeping the children together with their family. They are giving me a hard time. They haven’t let me visit the children, my own grandchildren, this is so disturbing it’s just horriffic i’m so tired, but i will not keep on pushing forward, because my grandsons are depending on me, their grandmother.

The way that i’ve been treated i can say for sure that they are not  believing in family values or trying to keep the families together instead they are doing all they can to adopt the children out. This is totally wrong. I just can’t believe this is happening to me. This is awful.

Grandmother’s Love For Her Grandchildren

11.01.09

The love that i have for my grandsons are 100% pure and i am a very strong woman. I am not leaving my grandsons in Oklahoma in there foster care system. My grandsons mean the world to me and they are my everything. Not a night that goes by that i don’t go into their rooms, i just look in and i even sometimes just sit and read in there as if i was reading to the boys. My grandsons are very special to me and they are my heart, my world. This is not only difficult  and confusing for them but as well as the same for me. We are family and we belong together. I am good for them. I miss my boys, they know that their grandmother loves them and that i ‘ve not left them. It’s just so confusing when we haven’t seen one another in months and what would a child think. So lord I just pray each and every day on this. I can’t go on with my life until my grandsons are back home with me, where they belong. Honesty and Truly belong with me. I love these  little boys they are my everything.