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2016/06/23

FAMILY VALUES! SUPPOSED TO MEAN SOMETHING! RIGHT?


THURSDAY JUNE 23, 2016

FARINA M THOMPSON

GRANDMOTHER

TO CHILDREN THAT WERE TAKEN IN 2006, MARCH 2.

OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA COUNTY

STATE OF OKLAHOMA

 

Family Values! Family Morals! Family is where we gain the knowledge of the world – on the other side of the front door! Family is first and foremost! Family is key and established foundation! Family is everything! Family! We love our family! Our great country is based on the principles of family and foundation.

As we see in political races and campaigns during all types of government offices in all competition and forums in all levels of government. Since family and foundation is of essential and great value! What’s the problem in the Oklahoma Family Court Justice Center! Children are suffering great lengths because of corruption in the OKDHS SYSTEM! PERIOD!

I came forth and stood up to take on responsibility for my beloved and adored grandchildren! As any grandparent would have done. I am an Army Veteran and I’ve decent finances, which I truly didn’t need any of assistance to take care of and provide for my grandchildren! Which I let them know of that as well! Alright! No! not one red cent. I am not a felon! Never have I been to prison! But! Everyone knows that you can’t have a felony and go into the United States Armed Forces! Which that’s common sense, OK! Also about the Felony that Oklahoma said that I had, Well you can’t be called for Jury Duty if you’re a Felon! Alright! Yet! But leave it to Oklahoma, that I had a Felony Food Stamp case at sometime –  30 years ago, a food stamp fraud case and that was part of the reason for giving my grandkids away to adoption and some stayed in the system and in boys group homes and others to remain in foster care and only one went to his father.

And If that’s not enough in 2009 in the month of September about the 14th or the 15th the boy’s mother, which she’s my daughter she signed off on her parental rights therefore abandoning and leaving my precious grandchildren in the states system! Now! I am totally devastated at her actions and behavior! Any way! the judge – Richard Kirby he still denies me my grandchildren and that was even more pain. They set out for Permanency Placement. They continuously kept repeating –  That! In the best interest of the child would be to be placed outside of the immediate family….! Which that wood be me of course; THE GRANDMOTHER!

So what about family? Family First! At least that is what I thought going in that family court in Oklahoma. For I truly thought Family! Children! Reunification and Not Permanent Separation nor Isolation. I don’t know where my grandchildren are or who are they with nor what’s going on with either of them. I am there Biological and Maternal Grandmother. I was the best suitable placement for them. I was! It’s supposed to be about family values. Right? Strengthening Families is what that agency was to do. HELP! HELP! HELP! THEM NOT TEAR THEM DOWN!

The agency/ gov OKDHS and OK FAMILY COURT SYSTEM IS CORRUPT AND DIRTY!  That would be COURT ROOM A – under the presiding judge by the name of RICHARD KIRBY!!

What happen to my family – my grandchildren is a GREAT TRAGEDY and should have never happened, taken place.

It’s now been 10 very emotional long years since our family has lost our family.

Something is very wrong in that family court system! As a loving and caring grandparent; I never seen it coming as to the outcome as it unfolded! I never thought that my grandchildren would end up being stolen and given to people and we never to have anything to do with them ever again! Some family values that is from the court, which the judge was – RICHARD KIRBY – COURT ROOM A at the time.

I moved to Oklahoma City Oklahoma from Reno, Nevada back in 2008. Before that I was taking flights to and from. It was easier to just relocate vs. flying as often as I were. So anyway! That was that.

Oklahoma DHS and the Family Court System, they denied me every step of the way. Every time I requested something It was shot down. From a home inspection to adoption to kinship foster care to foster care,  to licensing – the agency was given notice via telephone call that they weren’t able to license me. Even regular visitation was not given! It was horrible! Yes! The pain still looms to this day. My grandchildren and myself weren’t allowed continuous communication via telephone. Every once in a blue moon. On a daily I am reminded that I don’t have my dear and precious grandsons home with me! The pain in never-ending and I am deeply scared over this. It’s not been easy for me in this tragedy & it’s been ten years now! Nor will it ever will be easy for as that goes.

My grandchildren; Melvin Benjamin, Michael Walker, Mizael Walker, Teriq May, Eric Davis, and Samuel McCoy, they are not forgotten, they are always loved and wanted, they have family and a home. They always have a grandparent who loves and cares for them. I am very much concerned about what’s going on with them and what’s taking place right now, this minute and just everything to know that they are in the best of health doing well. It always crosses my thoughts in What kind of person are my grandchildren with? Really! Are they safe? Are they healthy? Are they eating enough? Are they doing good in their schooling? Are they being treated with love and respect?

I AM THEIR GRANDMOTHER! I’M THINKING OF EVERYTHING! I AM CONCERNED! WE GRANDPARENTS! THAT’S WHAT WE DO!

I pray my prayers daily and I can only hope that my grandchildren – which they are all males. My precious – precious babies! For them to one day do research over the internet to find out what they have always meant to me their grandmother. That I went to bat for them and I never stop trying or gave up on them.

I hired 3 different attorneys throughout the process while I was a resident there in Oklahoma! To no avail! All that took place on that note was that I lined their pockets so they can go out an enjoy their families or take a trip. Truthfully speaking it’s all a joke around Oklahoma. Fighting to get your children and grandchildren back, you definitely need to get an outside attorney or even a lawyer. Since OKDHS is a gravy train for the legal  profession for those who supposedly will fight to get your children back for you! It’s a sure circus. Really it is!

 MY GRANDCHILDREN AND OUR FAMILY HAVE NO DOUBT SUFFERED AN INJUSTICE! THE OKLHOMA FAMILY COURT AND THAT OF THE OKLAHOMA DHS HAVE COST MY GRANDCHILREN AND OUR FAMILY EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING!

PS. I TOO FILED COMPLAINTS WITH THE BAR! WITH THE SUPERVISOR OF OKDHS FOR THAT OFFICE! FILED COMPLAINTS HIGH UP TO THE ISSUES OF OKDHS AND NOTHING WAS EVER DONE!

WITH NO ACTION TAKEN! PRETTY MUCH IT JUST SENT ME A MESSAGE – AS LIKE  – THAT MY FAMILY DOESN’T MATTER!

TRULY A TRAGEDY!!

 

 

 

 

2016/06/22

10 LONG AND PAINFUL YEARS! I LOVE YOU! TO MY GRANDCHILDREN – ALWAYS AND FOREVER!


FARINA M THOMPSON

Wednesday June 22, 2016

TO – GRANDCHILDREN – MELVIN E BENJAMIN JR. , MICHAEL E WALKER, MIZAEL E WALKER, TERIQ L MAY, ERIC D DAVIS JR, SAMUEL B MCCOY JR,

 

My precious grandchildren I love you and it’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of and miss you daily! I pray that where ever you boys/ young men are that you are in great health and are doing well; considering that all of you were denied the right to be given back to your biological family.

I pray that every one of you by the GRACE of God that you will always know that I your grandmother does love you and I never gave up on you boys.

I am deeply saddened by the way the system has served us an injustice. Our family destroyed, shattered and scattered about.

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric and Sam! I love you and that will never change. I am your grandmother! I’ve never stopped loving you. Each and everyday I say a prayer for our family! That wherever you children are I only hope that the persons are treating you all well.

The day-to-day pain that I deal with its become the norm since I done what any grandmother would do in this case. I came for you all – yet the injustice and court corruption that went on in there was great! The tragedy no doubt have cost us everything!

I pray for our family! I love you all and miss you even more. You all are not forgotten! Never were and never will be! You all have always had family to take you children! With me your grandmother, The first in line of course! You all have always had family love from the start! Yes No Doubt! You were never thrown away, Never! I have always loved my grandchildren! Love you. Love you. Love you.

You grandchildren are with me in my heart and prayers every single day! It really hurts that we are not together! Just know that I love you and that will never change!

God Bless You and Grace Be With You All!

Love Always and Forever,

Your Grandmother,

Farina Maria Thompson

 

 

 

2016/05/05

FAMILY-FAMILY-FAMILY-FAMILY


THURSDAY, MAY 5, 2016

FROM GRANDMA: FARINA MARIA THOMPSON, P.O. BOX 1983, SPARKS, NEVADA 89432..

CASE DATE – THURSDAY MARCH 02, 2006; BIOLOGICAL MOTHER – JAMIRA NICCOLE MAY, WALKER, MCCOY; DATE OF BIRTH – NOVEMBER 16, 1930 ——————– CASE NAME — MELVIN BENJAMIN- D.O.B.  12-12-1996; MICHAEL WALKER- D.O.B. 02-25-1999; MIZAEL WALKER- D.O.B. 01-01-2000; TERIQ MAY-D.O.B. 04-21-2001; ERIC DAVIS- D.O.B. 03-18-2004; SAMUEL MCCOY- D.O.B. 03-30-2006. 

 

Dear Grandsons,

My Precious Love Ones; My Grand-babies, I love you all dearly more than words can express! I’m extremely heartbroken for the way that this great country that we live in. How the Human Services Agency – foster care division have treated this case so unprofessional and leaving you grandchildren in this failing system, as if you have no family where you can go to! I am sorry! I AM SO SORRY!

I Pray for our family daily and continuously! My grandsons you are not forgotten! You’re not left behind, either!

Hi! My Sweet and Precious Babies: Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric, and Little Sam! As always my mind isn’t far from you all. Life isn’t the same without you all. Each and everyday it is painful. I hope and pray that you all are being treated with love and respect and not as if you kids are throw aways or rejected. Because you grandchildren are definitely not in that category.

I love you! You have a Grandmother that loves you grandchildren dearly and misses all of you like crazy. You all are not forgotten! You have family that loves you. You are loved, wanted and missed! I continue to cry over you all- the deep pain that I have on a daily basis because how you all are going through this.

 

 I am your grandmother — FARINA THOMPSON.  I love you all boys (teenagers now) with all my heart. You are my grandsons and that will never change. I love you very much! You’re LOVED, WANTED, AND MISSED! You! each and every one of you have a place to call home. You have a caring and loving Grandmother that dropped everything and relocated to the mid-west to Oklahoma for 4 years. I fought for all of you. That I done in deed! I have the proof to show my work – that I came for all of you.

My grandsons’ I will never forget you! There’s not a day that I don’t think of you all. I look at your pictures. I miss you so much. I worry about all of you. What happen to you grandchildren- should have never taken place. It’s an awful tragedy. Our family, our home and our lives have been interrupted, scarred, shattered, damaged — we will never be the same.

Truly you all should be home with me your grandmother! This was an injustice served by the Oklahoma Family Court under the Judge Named– Richard W. Kirby in courtroom “A”. I am so sorry that folks can’t leave their personal opinions & behavior outside their place of work. Because of that it has been ten (10) very long years and so many long sleepless nights and pillows full of tears! So much have been taken from us because of the ruthless, heartless, and people who have no sense and regards for the basic value of FAMILY CORE -THE FAMILY UNIT.  It wasn’t justice that took place in the court room of that presiding Judge– Richard Kirby! No it wasn’t! As well as Jane Brown- DA; Ryan Hauser- PD; and the initial DHS child worker– Tara Bone.

My grandsons which you all will always be my babies. I am so sorry that you children were subjected to all that you have in your childhood lives. A terrible and painful experience for you grandchildren. I am heartbroken over it too! We will have alot of healing to do once we all come together & be reunited as a family again after all of this time of being away from the ones that love you!

You grandchildren are dear to me! So very dear to my heart! I love you. I love you. Family is key and you grandchildren have family. You will always be my family!

 

Love Always & Forever, Your Grandmother,

Farina Maria Thompson of Reno, Nevada.

 

 

 

 

NEW RULES AND POLICY A MUST


THURSDAY MAY 5, 2016

The states foster care agencies across states need new laws to govern them! Simply the way that it has been going on is definitely not the right way!

There needs to be changes. Families does need the help in order to keep their children, family and love ones safe from the state agency;  To stop the agencies from just barging on families and doing what ever to take folks children.

Adoptions should be the very last recommendation or choice! Family Reunification and Support definitely should come first priority and is Key! The government should not have the say so on whether the child or children be put up for adoption. They should use every necessary family and relative! (Of course that is not the way my grandchildren’s case went, I definitely didn’t have that option given to me.)

FARINA THOMPSON, GRANDMOTHER who was denied grandchildren! Haven’t seen the grandbabies since 2.16.2010.

 

 

 

A GRANDMOTHERS’ LOVE! TO MY DEAR AND PRECIOUS GRANDCHILDREN!

Filed under: GRANDMOTHER FIGHTING TO GET GRANDCHILDREN — msfarina603 @ 03:22

THE FAMILY CSOURTS ARE SUPPOSED TO DO THE LAWFULTHING AND NOT BE ON THE CORRUPTED SIDE OF THE LAW.
IF THIS KEEPS ON GOING ON LIKE THIS THEN WE ARE CERTAINLY GOING TO HAVE ALOT OF SOCIALLY UNPREPARED YOUNG FOLKS THAT WON’T BEABLE TO HANDLE EVERYDAY TASKS WHEN IT’S THIER TIME TO BE AN ADULT! DIRECTION IS MUCH NEEDED!

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OKLAHOMA DHS FOSTER CARE– Case Date- Thursday March 02, 2006; Oklahoma City, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma State, Mother of Children– Jamira Niccole May, Walker, McCoy.

Case#JD-06-180; K#20347104; MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER, MCCOY

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

MY PRECIOUS LOVES! YOU ARE NOT FORGOTTEN! YOU ARE LOVED, WANTED, AND MISSED!

Dear Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric and Little Sam–

I Think about you grandchildren each and every day. There is never a day that goes by that I don’t think of you grandchildren. It pains me that you all have been subjected to this and was forced to live your child hood out in this way. I didn’t want this for you boys at all. It’s not right what so ever. This truly was preventable, but unfortunately because of the many certain individuals with authority clout in their employment position was not abiding by the law and abused their privilege. They done this…

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A GRANDMOTHERS’ LOVE! TO MY DEAR AND PRECIOUS GRANDCHILDREN!


 

OKLAHOMA DHS FOSTER CARE– Case Date- Thursday March 02, 2006; Oklahoma City, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma State, Mother of Children– Jamira Niccole May, Walker, McCoy.

Case#JD-06-180; K#20347104; MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER, MCCOY

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

MY PRECIOUS LOVES! YOU ARE NOT FORGOTTEN! YOU ARE LOVED, WANTED, AND MISSED!

Dear Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric and Little Sam–

I Think about you grandchildren each and every day. There is never a day that goes by that I don’t think of you grandchildren. It pains me that you all have been subjected to this and was forced to live your child hood out in this way. I didn’t want this for you boys at all. It’s not right what so ever. This truly was preventable, but unfortunately because of the many certain individuals with authority clout in their employment position was not abiding by the law and abused their privilege. They done this terrible thing and refused to release all of you to me.

I’m saddened for the pain, grief ,suffering and heartbreak that you all had to endure! It hurts me down to the core of my being!

Injustice for sure! Grandma came for all of you. My loves, I am truly sorry for all that you all have gone through and what you are having to deal with these days. It’s been a very long 10 years that our family have been dealing with this tragedy. Even to this day — I am still shocked and surprised! This have been no doubt an eye opener for me that our country have a lot of cleaning to do when it comes to individuals that have a double standards in the way that they do business.

Family is supposed to be the FARINA THOMPSON AND GRANDCHILDREN AT LAST VISIT 2-16-2010corner-stone in which it enables structure and foundation! Or so I thought anyway! So I never thought that for one minute that I wouldn’t get you children. Since I am your grandmother and I came forward to claim you all my grandchildren. Well what a surprise I was given! I came forth and claimed my responsibility as a grandparent and was denied everything that I had requested! From a home study, foster care license, kinship fostering, guardianship and even adoption,  and if that wasn’t enough I was threatened with contempt of court and had to get a lawyer for myself. It wasn’t right at all. I can’t believe that circus that goes on in the family court room – specifically in that court room of – Judged Richard W Kirby. The DA Jane Brown. The PD Ryan Hauser. The DHS Child Worker Tara Bone.

My grandsons, Melvin E Benjamin, Michael E Walker, Mizael E Walker, Teriq L May, Eric D Davis, Samuel B McCoy. It’s very important to me that you grandchildren, for you all to know the truth– Don’t believe the lies that those people have told you children. I love you and I did come for you all. I would never have left you children in the states foster care agency. No not for one second. I most certainly wouldn’t even think of it. I can’t imagine what you all have gone through– But one thing that I am certain of is that– the pain and suffering that I’ve been dealing with have been out of this world. Stays with me day in – day out. I know your pain. And I’m sincerely heartbroken that you all were subjected to that.

These past 10 years has not been easy for our family. Because of the ungodly folks that have been over this case – from the Judge on down have broken some very basic laws that they are supposed to uphold but yet have denied us that very thing. We have not been given due diligence. Not at all. For instance they never gave me any type of court paperwork! It was only by vocal but never on hardcopy!

My grandchildren all of you, I love you very much! I will never ever forget any of you! I love you. Each and every day I have and keep you in my prayers! You are loved, wanted and missed. I pray for God to keep you all in his protection, in good health, and that you all are being treated right by all those different folks that have to watch over you boys. And I always pray that all of you grandchildren are in contact with your other siblings. That is painful as well that you boys well teenagers now that you all have been split up and separated.

Also I know that everyone in the family court was pushing for you all to be adopted out to keep all of you away from me! Simply because I have been out spoken! And not only that! I am proud and thankful that I am  a grandmother and I don’t mind the responsibility and I had and have not a problem in raising and caring for all of you.

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric and Little Sam! Grandma hasn’t forgotten about any of you. All of you are very dear and special to me! I want all of you to know that you all are a total of six (6) siblings! Which that is very important! Even though Little Sam is with his father – every one of you have suffered a great deal because of what the State of Oklahoma has done to us and our family. I’m so very sorry that this has damaged our family. No doubt we have lost so much and we will never be able to get it back. My grandchildren I love you. ! am your grandmother. I’ve never given up on you all.  I hurt just like you hurt. It’s essential that you boys have and know the truth! It’s key in the long run just as it is now today.

MY DEAR AND PRECIOUS GRANDCHILDREN! I LOVE YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER! NEVER MISSING A BEAT; IN MY HEART THAT I MISS YOU ALL EACH AND EVERYDAY. YOU’RE IN MY PRAYERS. ALWAYS.

LOVE YOUR GRANDMOTHER, FARINA M THOMPSON,

P.O. BOX 1983

SPARKS NEVADA 89432

2016/04/28

Injustice and Corruption – OKDHS

Filed under: GRANDMOTHER FIGHTING TO GET GRANDCHILDREN — msfarina603 @ 02:46

Thursday March 31, 2016

Family Damaged & Destroyed

CASE# JD-06-180

K# 20347104

CASE DATE- THURSDAY MARCH 02, 2006

A GRANDMOTHER’S PAIN!

Most excruciating pain, ever!  The refusal and denial, rejection of having your grandchildren returned to you. I came forth to get my grandchildren out of the foster care  system. Yet I was continuously denied.

Any loving and caring grandparent would have done the same exact thing to step up as a grandparent and get those children out and back to the home and family where they belong.

The pain of continuously playing over and over in my head of how that State Agency go about extreme length to keep inflicting pain upon the children that have family to step up – rejecting every request that I put on the table. Just Awful.

My precious grandchildren, they were  denied to return home!

Oklahoma DHS – Tara Bone & many other Case Workers, Judge Richard Kirby, D.A. Jane Brown, P.D. Ryan Hauser, they all played a part in keeping my grandchildren in the foster care system.

Those cold-hearted folks, have destroyed my family, our lives and have stolen everything from us. My only grandchildren have grown up in the system, and they shouldn’t have. It breaks my heart each and everyday! That I’m not in their lives! What’s wrong with the American Family Courts  & The States Foster Care Unit ( A government Agency) that allows  children to be ripped to shreds as they are floating from one foster care home to other, Instead of doing the correct and only thing by returning the children to their family. And don’t forger the children’s shelter and group home! An awful experience for the children!

I will never forget that early dawn hours on May 05, 2012; when I found my grandchildren on the Adoption List – Waiting Child to be Adopted. In need of a FOREVER FAMILY! Stating that my grandchildren was available to be Adopted. Not only that It stated in the Kids Bio that they have no other siblings. Totally devastating. The Pain! 

I have filed complaints, several complaints on the Judge at the time – Kirby. But nothing ever was looked into. I never heard back from the Bar Association in regards to the complaint that was placed.

Not only that, after requesting for an ICPC, from OKC, OK to Modesto, California, I was informed from the case worker that I wasn’t to get my grandchildren period! The judge – Richard Kirby,  gave that order to the child welfare case worker.

It’s a shame to have children, so many children! to be stripped from their biological families and only to adopt them out, because people who are abusing the privilege of their employment status. In all! truly thinking that they can  do what they want, That being destroying families.

The foster care system truly needs to be overhauled. This system no doubt is broken and children adopted out as if that is the primary solution.  It’s been ten years since my daughter’s children’s my precious grandchildren have been out of the family. Ten years no doubt! The damage has already been done.

The way that my grandchildren’s case was handled was so disturbing. Poorly, and unprofessional to say the least. I am still reeling it all in. My precious babies, (I know that they have really growed in these past 10 years); They will always be my babies.

I’m their grandmother and I never had any rights’ in this here matter! What so ever! Especially there in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma!

Such a Tragic! My family destroyed and damaged! Truly, we’ve lost so much as a family. The system is such a disgrace to the families of which they should be helping instead of causing more havoc and emotional pain on the children and their families! Leaving the children scarred!

The pain never goes away! It’s always with me!

Grandmother, Farina Thompson

2016/03/31

My Grandsons I Love You! You’re Not Forgotten!


It’s been 10 years now, since you all were taken from our family. 10 very long and emotional years since this tragedy interrupted our family and our lives, on that day. Thur. 3/2/2006.

Case Date – Thursday 3/2/2006; Case# – JD-06-180; K#20347104, Case Name – Benjamin, May, Davis, Walker –OKC, OK County, OK State

I miss you all so very much. It’s not a day that I don’t think of you children! You boys, will never be forgotten.

Melvin Benjamin, Michael Walker, Mizael Walker, Teriq May, Eric Davis, and Samuel McCoy! My precious grandchildren I love you  and always will. That will never change!!

I am always thinking of all of you.  You grandchildren will never ever be forgotten. I love you all very much.

Just remember that I did come for you boys! I did indeed, even relocated out to Oklahoma for 4 years. I was denied everything that I requested. My grandsons, we live in a world that people abuse their power just out of pure selfishness. For no reason at all. We have suffered greatly from that ignorance, injustice and corruption. I love you and you’re not forgotten.

Melvin – Michael – Mizael – Teriq – Eric, You all are in my prayers. Grandma! Misses you all so much. You children are loved, wanted, and missed. I didn’t throw you all away. I did not. I have all the proof on that. Love you * Love you always and forever.

Your Grandmother, Farina Maria*

Thursday March 31, 2016

 

2016/01/10

A GRANDMOTHERS LOVE; YOU’RE NEVER FORGOTTEN!


Grandmother/Farina M Thompson:

PO BOX 1983, SPARKS NEVADA 89432

SUNDAY JANUARY 10, 2016; 11:40 AM

RE: Thursday March 2, 2006
Case# JD-06-180; K# 20347104
BENJAMIN, MAY, DAVIS, WALKER, MCCOY CASE

Dear Grandchildren: I love you all and misses you very much! It’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of all of you.

Melvin Benjamin, Michael Walker, Mizael Walker, Teriq May, Eric Davis and Samuel McCoy.

FARINA AND GRANDCHILDREN ON LAST VISIT 2-16-2010

It’s now closing on 10 years and you boys have been shuffled and shafted in and about in the Oklahoma foster care system. Some of you have been adopted out and one of you have aged out and then some of you are still in the system, in the county boys group home. Then there is the baby out of all of you, he was given to his father, which he will never remember that he was ever taken. Which he is still suffering as well since he is not growing up with his brothers.  Nothing is the same since that day that our lives were interrupted and shattered! I’m sorry the system has failed our family. Everything was taken from our precious family.

I can’t imagine the pain and suffering that all of you have endured since being taking away from home and the family. I suffer every single day that we are not together. Constantly I am thinking of all of you. Crying is very normal for me these days.

Our family have suffered a grim most horrible tragedy! My grandchildren! Please know that I love all of you very, very much and that I came for you children! I would not turn my back on you. Not for any reason what so ever. I hope and pray that you will not go through your life thinking that your biological grandmother didn’t love you enough to put my life on hold to come and get all of you out of the states foster care system.  Because I did come forth.

It saddens me that the family court system there in Oklahoma, truly isn’t about helping the families, instead it does what they choose verse helping the families. I came forth grandchildren. I was denied every step of the way. I was denied time and time again. From adopting you boys to getting a fostering license to kinship fostering to regular continual family visits with all of you. Not only did I spend money on legal help for to get you children home which  it wasn’t in our favor as you can tell since I’m writing letters to you on the web; I had to obtain legal counsel to keep me out of jail, because I was threatened with contempt of court since I was speaking out on our family behalf that I should be given you boys and get you all out of the foster care system and back home, so we can get on with our lives and get back on track.

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I was a resident in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, In Oklahoma County from 2008 until 2012 January. I rented a town house located at : 8220 NW 10th Street #22 OKC, OK 73127 cross streets –  Council Rd & NW 10TH street. From there I moved to Modesto, California, with the intentions on getting an ICPC transfer for you children, then come to find out from the dhs case worker that Judge Kirby had told them that I was never to get you boys and so the request for the ICPC was never granted let alone submitted. Then shortly following that communication I found you children on the adoption list labeled as available for adoption and too it claimed that you all were single births and that you had no other siblings that was on May 5, 2012 when I came across those notifications.

My precious and dear grandchildren how the system treated your case was nothing short of abuse of power and status position as they held in their employment.

Certainly! Oklahoma DHS destroyed our family, there moto didn’t help our family. And there moto is to help the children and family! All they have done in our family was take advantaged of this case in particular. I’m deeply sorry and saddened that people can be so hateful and disheartened and just plain cold blooded to do what they want and please without any punishment for their unjustly actions – destroying families and children’s lives.

I love you! I your biological grandmother loves you and that will never ever change. Never Forgotten! You grandchildren will never be forgotten! No! Not Ever! Sincerely, I love you always and forever!

 There’s nothing that I wouldn’t do for all of you my dear and precious grandchildren, my only grandchildren that I have. My heart aches and aches of this continual pain.

Definitely none of you children should have had to endure this ugly thing! I am so sorry that you have experienced this. No child should be going through this.

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric and Sam, I hurt because you children have gone through something that have altered your childhood. I’m terribly and emotionally sad because so much has been taken away from you and our family.

Remember that I love you and I never forgot about you. Also that you’re always in my heat and prayers. That you’re never forgotten!

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All of you will forever be in my heart and prayers!

Always & Forever, Hugs and Kisses,

Love Your Grandmother,

Farina Maria Thompson

2015/12/09

REALLY! WHAT ARE HOLIDAYS? WHEN DHS TAKES YOUR CHILDREN AND DO WHAT THEY WANT WITH THEM!


FROM GRANDMOTHER- FARINA THOMPSON, PO BOX 1983, SPARKS NV 89432

TO MY GRANDSONS IN OKLAHOMA CITY,OKLAHOMA COUNTY, STATE OF OKLAHOMA–

MELVIN BENJAMIN, MICHAEL WALKER, MIZAEL WALKER, TERIQ MAY, ERIC DAVIS, AND SAMUEL MCCOY(he’s with his dad).

OKLAHOMA DHS took my grandchildren in 2006 on March 02. The office located at 7201 NW 10th – OKC, OK 73127

Grandma will always love you boys, which you now have grown significantly!

I just want you all to know that I never stopped loving you! Of course you all are not forgotten. You are loved, wanted and missed. I did not forget about any of you. I have you in my heart. I love you so much!

I know that these past years have took you children through so much and I’m sorry for all that you have suffered! This was no way right, what so ever at period.

My precious grandchildren I miss each and every one of you more than you know! Of course I still write to you all! But I guess you’re not getting the letters that I send to you even after all this time. My heartaches none stop because of our family being separated like this.

Holidays aren’t the same without my grandchildren. For the past nearly 10 years my holidays have been extremely painful! As a matter of fact the holidays are the most painful for me. Following those supposed to be joyful and family days of the year only brings tears to me. I miss my grandchildren so very much!

Case Date – Thursday, March 02, 2006. Case # JD-06-180; K# 20347104 – OKC,OK,OK – meaning the City, State, County

My grandsons are:

Melvin Benjamin he’s soon to be 19 this month December.

Michael Walker he’s 16.

Mizael Walker he’s 15

Teriq May he’s 14.

Eric Davis he’s 11.

Samuel McCoy he’s 9. (with his dad).

My grandsons I just wanted to say that I love and miss all of you. 10 years is a very long time to be away from all of you.

Love Always,

Your Grandmother,

Farina

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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