Oklahoma DHS and Family Court Judge!

Hello my name is Farina Thompson! For nearly 6 years! Come March 2, 2012, it will be 6 whole and long years, that my precious and dear grandchildren were taken by OKDHS and put in the Oklahoma foster care system!

CASE# JD-06-180, MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER; OKDHS-KIDS# 20347104; Judge; Richard W Kirby; DHS- Tara j Bone.

Since they have been in there, They have been shuffled around and bouncing from one placement to the other and also they, each and every one of them are in different placement! Also and don’t forget! That Oklahoma DHS has alienated them from their biological family. They haven’t had any visitation for the past 2 years! Also no regular visitation from day one of the beginning!

My grandchildren are in group homes and foster families’ and not to forget, that the state has them on medications too. My grandchildren have had close to one dozen social workers/ caseworkers!

What is so devastating is the fact that the Oklahoma State Agency has kept me and my precious grandchildren apart separated! That’s been since day one of them being taken on March 2 2006. I haven’t seen my grandbabies for the past 2 years and some months! Truly devastating!!!!!

This has been a horrible situation that my grandchildren are going through! It’s very emotional and painful for all of us! Please keep us in prayer. I thank you! I thank you. My grandchildren! You are never forgotten! Trust your grandmother! That you are loved, wanted and missed. My grandsons you all are very dear and precious to me! Yes you are! Each and every one of you touches my heart! Love you lot’s.

To my precious grandchildren! My prayers are of and for you! For us as a family!

Loving, caring and Grieving Grandmother

Farina

 

65 Months And Grandchildren Still Aren’t Home

65 months and my grandchildren still remains in the Oklahoma Foster Care System floating around from placement to placement.

Since 3-2-2006, my precious grandchildren have been in the Oklahoma foster care system.  They have been alienated from our family.  I haven’t seen my grandsons since 2-16-2010. Haven’t heard their voices.  Yet the court seems, this is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD!

How can family alienation be of good measure?

Foster Care isn’t good for any children. It has to be a better way than this. The folks involved in dividing and separating the children from their families and alienating on a continuous basis have no morals or ethical guide lines what so ever.

My precious grandsons has been alienated from our family for over 5.5 years. They were taken on 3-2-2006. Since they have been in foster care, we have not had any regular visitation. This is wrong! This isn’t right! What about the children who needs their family?

The Judge- Judge Richard W Kirby,  Tara Bone – DHS,  Asst DA- Jane Brown, Asst PD- Ryan Hauser and DHS Director- Howard Hendrick, they all should be HELD ACCOUNTABLE for their part in alienating my grandchildren and continuing to inflict pain upon them, by keeping them in the system for as long as they have.

The judge has denied my request to order DHS to do a home-study of my home inorder to adopt my 5 grandsons. The judge has dismissed me from any future court hearings in regards to my grandchildren’s case, at the request of DHS. The Judge granted the request. This was done on 2-8-2011.

My grandchildren are suffering in foster care. Being shipped, shuffled and shafted from one placement to the next. That’s terrible! It’s emotional for the children. I feel my grandchildren pain. I am right there with them.

This is an injustice! An investigation should be launched into the practice of how a judge and dhs handles these cases. This isn’t right at all and these folks are getting away with how they are treating the children and families.

DHS are supposed to be hleping the children and families? Right? Not inflicting damage or traumatizing the children even more! This system is broken.

My grandchildren has been in the foster care system since MARCH 2 2006. The State refuses to work with me to return my 5 grandsons.

I’ll say it again, that: The Judge- Judge Richard W Kirby,  Tara Bone – DHS,  Asst DA- Jane Brown, Asst PD- Ryan Hauser and DHS Director- Howard Hendrick, they all should be HELD ACCOUNTABLE for their part in alienating my grandchildren and continuing to inflict pain upon them, by keeping them in the system for as long as they have.

This is the State of Oklahoma, City of Oklahoma City, County of Oklahoma.

CASE# JD-06-180, CASE NAME- MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER, MOTHER- JAMIRA N MAY-MCCOY. DATE CHILDREN WERE TAKEN- MARCH 2 2006.

Foster Care isn’t right for any child. Foster Care destroys children, they enter one way and then they are transformed. It’s the foster care system. It’s no good.

How can it be any good, For when I’ve been fighting for the longest to get my grandsons back home.

I have relocated from Nevada. I have a 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage home. It’s over 2,000 square feet. I am not a felon, I’m a veteran, I have everything that’s needed to taken care of my 5 grandsons. Roof over their head and beds for each and every one of them. A Refrigerator full of food.  I’ve a washer and dryer. I MEAN! WHAT’S THE PROBLEM? ISN’T IT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?

65 MONTHS ! COME ON, NOW! IT’S CORRUPTION HERE IN THE STATE OF OKLAHOMA IN THE DHS FOSTER CARE SYSTEM AND THE JUDGE OVER MY GRANDSONS CASE. JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY.

PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND MY PRECIOUS GRANDCHILDREN AS WE ARE SUFFERING, HURTING AND HAS BEEN SEPARATED FOR QUITE SOME TIME. PLEASE PRAY FOR THEIR SAFE RETURN SO WE CAN MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES. WE NEED CLOSURE.

Thank You and God Bless.

A grieving grandmother

 

 

Farina and Grandchildren

Please pray for me and my grandchildren, that this will be all over so that we can move on in our lives. 5 years is damage enough.

We are a family that has strong ties and bonds together.. We connect at the heart and our love is very strong.

When the devil is so active. I just ask that you all will keep me and my babies in prayer. Thank You.

I know that my heavenly father seeing everything and i am sure that his love will definitely prevails. It’s amazing how people of the flesh still thinks of them selves to be higher than the HIGHER POWER.

With the dirt and corruption in the  family courts, I pray for peace and serenity. To come to those that has a demized heart and pray that they will find peace with in themselves so that they can let go of the hatred that’s in their hearts.

Please pray for my family and for them that need God!

Thank You.

Grandmother persecuted

 

There’s so many nick names that our grandchildren has for calling us as grandparents. There’s hundred of names that so many grandchildren calls their loving grandma and grandpa.

When the DHS DIRECTOR- HOWARD HENDRICK, DHS SUPERVISOR- TARA J BONE, DHS DA- JANE BROWN, and the ASSOCIATE DISTRICT JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY, lose their way to do the right thing. Then that brings about corruption. It is about the children and getting them out of the system as fast and soon as possible.

5 years to bring closure to a case it very damaging to my babies. Because my grandsons, they know that Grandma is here. That’s not right at all! It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

My grandsons are loved, wanted and missed by all of our family. They have a loving home to come to.

I have relocated over 1800+ miles to be close to my boys, and to have regular visits with them.

The state has taken that away. From the beginning there were never any regular visits.

They have kept my grandsons away from me and they haven’t had any phone calls either.

Family reunification is the key and yet, As they stress it so much. Why are my grandchildren not home yet?

I have a 3 bedroom 2 bath 2 car garage home and it is over 2,000 square feet. I’ve more than enough space for my grandsons. This is wrong.

Everyone knows how rough it is for children to be left in foster care. Especially any length of time.

There is a very big problem and something needs to be done about it!

I just want my grandchildren out of the foster care system. That’s all i want is for them to be home back in my arms. With loving family as i am here and will not stop my journey to get them home.

There are Statutes and the Oklahoma Administrative Codes that aren’t being enforced. My grandchildren should have been home many moons ago.

Our civil rights and human rights has been violated. My grandbabies has been victimized by the system as well as our whole family.

I’ve spent many countless hours on the internet searching for case information, and to learn as much as i can about foster care and case-law in regards to grandchildren and grandparents. Just all issues dealing with family court judges and getting educated about the players involved with my grandsons case.

I have asked for help from many agencies, knocked on may doors, sent hundreds of faxes, and rung a many telephones, because what it going on here in the State of Oklahoma isn’t justice at all, not for along shot.

These persons that are in a position to destroy families and many children’s lives are cold-hearted folks. They think that they are untouchable. They are above the law. So to speak and by that they can abuse their authority. In the mean time can leave a trail of destruction.

It’s supposed to be about the children, In my grandsons case. That is no longer the priority. As i see it. They are focusing on me. I’m just a loving and caring grandmother, that refuses to give in to them, so that they can do what they want with my grandsons.

I’ve been targeted, and this is now a racist issue, a personal vendetta.

The Judge – Richard W Kirby, DA – Jane Brown, DHS Supervisor – Tara J Bone, and DHS Director – Howard Hendrick – has lost their way of processing and now has made it even more difficult on my grandsons, by not giving me my grandsons.

Priority should be – family reunification. Family connection and bonding. Not destroying the children’s lives. The court system and dhs has alienated me grandbabies. We haven’t seen each other in quite some time now.

My grandbabies, they all know how much i love and miss them. The family courts know that I love and miss my grandbabies. This is tragedy and emotional painful for us.

Everyone as mentioned before, they are going home every night to their babies, grandbabies, and look forward to seeing them as they walk through the door. How would they feel, If they couldn’t see their babies, or granddbabies little faces? How would they feel to be going through this ordeal as me and my grandbabies?

It’s a nightmare! A real life Horror! I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

As of 12/2009 I was denied all access to court documentation in regards to my grandsons case. I have not been allowed to receive any court papers, showing the up coming court dates. It’s only been by word of mouth. That’s not good enough.

Anyway I’m asking everyone to please pray for me and my grandchildren. We have been going through this for some time now. My grandchildren and our family has been victimized by the Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS.

Please keep the prayers coming, I thank you and do so appreciate it. God Bless.

My family, we need closure.

All I want is, to see my grandbabies,hug and be there for my grandchildren.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Love, Peace and Blessings. God Bless to all. Amen!

Thank you for taking the time to read our family story of enduring pain.

　

We as grandparents has that special bond of connection with our grandchildren. Being in our grandbabies lives are so valuable for them and us as that role model to our little ones.

Here in the state of Oklahoma where I have been for the past 2.5 – 3 years, out of love for my precious grandsons. I am being persecuted because I am fighting for my grandchildren. I will not shut up about the exposure of what’s taking place in the oklahoma family court.

My grandsons have been in the foster care system since March 2 2006. I’m the only one that’s fighting for them. We are a family and they are close to my heart. We are blood.

This is a living nightmare for me and my family.

I’m concerned about my grandsons that’s in the Oklahoma Foster Care States System. This is un called for. When children has been taken by the state, they should be trying everything to place the children with their biological family members. Here i am their maternal and biological grandmother. What they do is hinder the process. This case has been dragged out for 5 years. March 2 2011 will be five years.

I am not a felon, never been to prison. I am all that these children has to appear in court.

It’s about family and children, to be reunited to end this horrible tragedy. It’s supposed to be. You’d think.

GRANDMOTHER/ GRANDMA/ NANNIE/ NANA