PAINFUL JOURNEY! FAMILY SHATTERED & DAMAGED! RE- CASE# JD-06-180 / K# 20347104 CASE DATE- THURSDAY MARCH 02, 2006

Sat. 10.24.2015

Hello and Hi to everyone that’s been keeping up with me and this painful journey of my family. My precious grandchildren I miss them so very much, more than words can describe.Thank you all for your interest and heartfelt prayers. I’m no longer in the Mid-West region. I’ve returned back to the West Coast. That was in early 2012 February. Emotional! Yes it continues. That will never change. It’s been some time since I’ve posted anything.

I continue to write my grandchildren. However they aren’t responding to their letters. Every letter that I mail, I keep a copy of it. (That’s the only way I’ll send it — proof and verification key).

My grandchildren, they have family and truly not forgotten!

On May 5 2012; something urged me to view the Adoption page of Oklahoma’s Children! Let me tell you – I found my grandchildren on that page and I just couldn’t believe my eye’s – what I was seeing. I SCREAMED JUST SCREAMED. I thought I was going to die that night! After that I couldn’t sleep for months – just the roughest time ever (again) dealing with the OKLAHOMA DHS FOSTER CARE SYSTEM.

What I read under the descriptions of my grandsons bio – was that they were single births and had no other siblings! I immediately called to Oklahoma the next business day and got some answers – of course not what I wanted to hear.

The response was that – She had received approval to say that my grandchildren were the only child and had no siblings.

OH! What I didn’t mention, was that once I had reestablished myself on the West Coast – I requested an ICPC – transfer of my grandsons. I talked to the child worker at the time. Get This! She said that the Judge- Richard W. Kirby had said that I wasn’t to get my grandchildren at all, what so ever! I see that as “just pure evil and hatred”.

It’s been an emotional & painful journey!

My oldest grandson has aged out of the system. He’s turning 19 in December. As yet still no contact from him.

The next two under my oldest they are still in the system. I don’t here from them either.

The next two under the two that I just mentioned, they have been adopted out.

Then of course the youngest of my six grandchildren, he has been returned to his father, which was fairly early on. My grandson don’t have a recollection of ever being the foster care system.

You know this still seems as if I am living in a ‘NIGHTMARE’ and I can’t wake up! It’s just excruciating pain day in day out. You can bet that I have gone through it since – March 02, 2006. Not a day that goes by that I don’t think about my precious grandsons – What’s going on with them. Who are they with. Their health. Their education. How are they being treated. Just everything that one can imagine when you don’t know what’s going one with your babies.

You all understand what I am saying! A grandmother’s love. Family love.

The system is supposed to keep FAMILY’S TOGETHER- noticed I said supposed to. That system in Oklahoma, from what I’ve experienced including the Family Court. Clearly it’s Corruption and all about the Money -selling all the Children(adopting them out and getting paid).

PS. I want to let all of you know that once I returned back to the WEST COAST – Most definitely it was hard for me in that I had to leave my grandbabies out there in the system. OH! very painful and emotional for me.

Also for all of you that are involved with any DHS/CPS/CSD & the many other names that they may go by. Hang in there. Just don’t give up. It’s a very grueling and intense experience. Remember! The love we have for our love ones, family members, our grandbabies, our babies – That’s real. Pure Love.

We will get through this.

Hey what keeps me going are the many responses that I received from all of you & of course that I am determined to make sure that my grandchildren, they will all know the truth and what happened.

Because I am not a dead beat grandmother. I came forth as a loving and caring grandparent ought to. I done that. I moved and relocated from Nevada to Oklahoma, but not first before I took several FLIGHTS and DRIVEN my own personal vehicle. I done that and I’d do it all over again.

That’s how much I love my grandchildren.

It’s been almost 10 years since this tragedy have struck our family – It’s hard! Very Painful!

My grandchildren, they are not forgotten! They are loved, wanted and missed! They were taken and held hostage against their will. My grandchildren they wanted to come home. Grandma came for them. I was refused, denied and over looked deliberately in every thing that I requested.

Farina M Thompson.

65 Months And Grandchildren Still Aren’t Home

65 months and my grandchildren still remains in the Oklahoma Foster Care System floating around from placement to placement.

Since 3-2-2006, my precious grandchildren have been in the Oklahoma foster care system.  They have been alienated from our family.  I haven’t seen my grandsons since 2-16-2010. Haven’t heard their voices.  Yet the court seems, this is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD!

How can family alienation be of good measure?

Foster Care isn’t good for any children. It has to be a better way than this. The folks involved in dividing and separating the children from their families and alienating on a continuous basis have no morals or ethical guide lines what so ever.

My precious grandsons has been alienated from our family for over 5.5 years. They were taken on 3-2-2006. Since they have been in foster care, we have not had any regular visitation. This is wrong! This isn’t right! What about the children who needs their family?

The Judge- Judge Richard W Kirby,  Tara Bone – DHS,  Asst DA- Jane Brown, Asst PD- Ryan Hauser and DHS Director- Howard Hendrick, they all should be HELD ACCOUNTABLE for their part in alienating my grandchildren and continuing to inflict pain upon them, by keeping them in the system for as long as they have.

The judge has denied my request to order DHS to do a home-study of my home inorder to adopt my 5 grandsons. The judge has dismissed me from any future court hearings in regards to my grandchildren’s case, at the request of DHS. The Judge granted the request. This was done on 2-8-2011.

My grandchildren are suffering in foster care. Being shipped, shuffled and shafted from one placement to the next. That’s terrible! It’s emotional for the children. I feel my grandchildren pain. I am right there with them.

This is an injustice! An investigation should be launched into the practice of how a judge and dhs handles these cases. This isn’t right at all and these folks are getting away with how they are treating the children and families.

DHS are supposed to be hleping the children and families? Right? Not inflicting damage or traumatizing the children even more! This system is broken.

My grandchildren has been in the foster care system since MARCH 2 2006. The State refuses to work with me to return my 5 grandsons.

I’ll say it again, that: The Judge- Judge Richard W Kirby,  Tara Bone – DHS,  Asst DA- Jane Brown, Asst PD- Ryan Hauser and DHS Director- Howard Hendrick, they all should be HELD ACCOUNTABLE for their part in alienating my grandchildren and continuing to inflict pain upon them, by keeping them in the system for as long as they have.

This is the State of Oklahoma, City of Oklahoma City, County of Oklahoma.

CASE# JD-06-180, CASE NAME- MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER, MOTHER- JAMIRA N MAY-MCCOY. DATE CHILDREN WERE TAKEN- MARCH 2 2006.

Foster Care isn’t right for any child. Foster Care destroys children, they enter one way and then they are transformed. It’s the foster care system. It’s no good.

How can it be any good, For when I’ve been fighting for the longest to get my grandsons back home.

I have relocated from Nevada. I have a 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage home. It’s over 2,000 square feet. I am not a felon, I’m a veteran, I have everything that’s needed to taken care of my 5 grandsons. Roof over their head and beds for each and every one of them. A Refrigerator full of food.  I’ve a washer and dryer. I MEAN! WHAT’S THE PROBLEM? ISN’T IT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?

65 MONTHS ! COME ON, NOW! IT’S CORRUPTION HERE IN THE STATE OF OKLAHOMA IN THE DHS FOSTER CARE SYSTEM AND THE JUDGE OVER MY GRANDSONS CASE. JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY.

PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND MY PRECIOUS GRANDCHILDREN AS WE ARE SUFFERING, HURTING AND HAS BEEN SEPARATED FOR QUITE SOME TIME. PLEASE PRAY FOR THEIR SAFE RETURN SO WE CAN MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES. WE NEED CLOSURE.

Thank You and God Bless.

A grieving grandmother

 

 

Alienating My Grandchildren

Since my grandsons were taken back in 2006 of March, the Oklahoma DHS has been commiting policy and procedures violations according to their hand book OAC.

Oklahoma devious and malicious acts in the case of my grandsons are an injustice to me and my family. Our civil and human rights has been violated.

Children deserves visitation and continuous contact with their family and yet my grandsons has not had that opportunity. My grandsons don’t deserve this. Our family doesn’t deserve this.

I have been fighting for my grandsons from day one. I have moved to Oklahoma. All i see here is everything but the right thing. It’s corruption. It’s racial. It’s Personal vendetta going on here. It’s threats as well. It’s Employee’s abusing their power of their job. Their position that they hold.

Since i have been here in Oklahoma I have yet to have on  regular basis visits with my grandsons. I am very interested in the the true reason behind these folks doing this. I want answers. Not a lie. The truth. My truth is – I’m me. They are racial driven. My wanting to visit with my grandchildren should not of had a negative respons as it has in the courts. This is wrong.

Me and my grandsons has always had an existing relationship before they were taken by Oklahoma dhs back in 2006. This is no way right at all.

In the court room i have been treated like dirt. The court continues to put off the case. I am continuing to spend money. The whole time my babies are still in foster care.

My family has been hurted long enough by this corrupt system of family courts and the Oklahoma DHS. The sytem is supposed to help the families and children. To strengthened them not destroy them and alienate the babies from the family. In the case of my daughter Jamira N May, where she relinquished her parental rights – only because it was told to her that I – had helped my daughter too many times and that she had to do this on her own. Well any  mother and grandmother would help their children and grandchildren especially when it came down to getting them out of the foster care system.

I have a rented home here thats available and fully furnished and equipped for my family and the courts denied my daughter to come home where i could help be a solution to this tragedy and put an end to this. Because the courts denied this, My precious grandbabies are still in the Oklahoma foster care system. Oklahoma DHS has had my grandsons for 4 years 10months 1week 1 day.

My daughter had just been released from prison and she needed her mothers’ help. So since the courts didn’t  allowed this to take place my grown daughter grew weary and gave up. She left her babies in the foster care system. My daughter gave birth to 6 boys, only her first 5 are still in the foster care system. That is so very painful.

Just for the record my daughter Jamira N May went to prison after her children were taken from her. It was unrelated to the children being taken by Oklahoma DHS. So my daughter she needed help and as a mother i was there to help her, but the court denied me giving assitance to my daughter.

Now since that has taken place, she is no longer in the case and i am going to court on my own. From what i have been told on many occasions that i am not apart of the case. They the case workwers  of DHS doesnot give me any information on my grandchildren. I don’t get the chance to see or visit with my grandsons. Not even hug them or hear their voices. This is hard on us. We are the family unit and its being painfully destroyed by the foster care DHS/DFS/DCFS/DSS all across the U.S by these agencies having so much power and It’s killing off the american families.

I believe in my opinion it’s another form of imprisionment. This isn’t right to destroy the families as the government has allowed this to take place.

The Department of Health and Human Services should re-construct another form of family intervention to help the persons that may come in contact with issues like this. For 1 – THE FAMILY UNIT SHOULD BE PRESERVED. For 2 – FAMILY UNIT  HOLDS  THE FOUNDATION. For 3 –  THE FAMILY UNIT IS ENRICHING AND HAS HERITAGE AND UNITY. For 4 – FAMILY NEEDS TO BE WITH FAMILY. For 5 – GRANDCHILDREN NEEDS THEIR GRANDPARENTS. For 6 – GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS ARE A MUST. For 7 -THERE SHOULDN’T BE NO ADOPTION UNLESS THERE IS NO FAMILY WHAT SO EVER TO TAKE THE CHILDREN.

With that having been said- I am here in Oklahoma and has no intentions on stopping my journey on pursuing this matter of my grandchildren being returned to me and my family where these boys belong.

What i have come across since in my journey is that the DHS system will do all it can to deter you from your hard and persistent work. They will say many many nasty things in court and try to get you to be out of character. But you must hold your peace. You see,  if one allows the system to make them so mad where they will just  give up, then they can get rid of your love-ones in my case my babies. I’m not doing that. I am a very strong woman and i will be here to the last.

Oh yes, it pains me that i haven’t seen my grandsons since 2-16-10, that was the last time. That’s very hard to deal with, being right here in he same state and city for some of my babies.

It’s a tragedy as it is that my babies my grandbaies are in the sytem and out of the home from the get go. But, for the DHS system and the family courts to keep us apart that’s another issue.

My grandchildren are my life, my world and because of this awful interruption of our lives and the separation: I work even harder to not to give up hope that this will soon be over. I pray continuously.

Oklahoma DHS and the Family Courts intimidated my daughter a young woman who had just been released from prison, But! Rest Assured, I’m not going away! The State of  Oklahoma took my grandbabies and they have a grandparent that will not rest til justice prevails. I’m a registered voter, I’m no felon, I have a 3-2-2 garage home, I relocated from Reno Nevada. I am here.

The motive for the State of OKlahoma for not returning my grandkids to date – Plain Racial, Serious Issues. It’s a personal vendetta against me.

I put everything on my life- I’m not going no where with out my grandchidren. As long as The State Of Oklahoma has my Grandchildren i am here.

WE ARE A FAMILY UNIT – FAMILY IS WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND – MY GRANDSONS ARE LOVED.