FAMILY-FAMILY-FAMILY-FAMILY

THURSDAY, MAY 5, 2016

FROM GRANDMA: FARINA MARIA THOMPSON, P.O. BOX 1983, SPARKS, NEVADA 89432..

CASE DATE – THURSDAY MARCH 02, 2006; BIOLOGICAL MOTHER – JAMIRA NICCOLE MAY, WALKER, MCCOY; DATE OF BIRTH – NOVEMBER 16, 1930 ——————– CASE NAME — MELVIN BENJAMIN- D.O.B.  12-12-1996; MICHAEL WALKER- D.O.B. 02-25-1999; MIZAEL WALKER- D.O.B. 01-01-2000; TERIQ MAY-D.O.B. 04-21-2001; ERIC DAVIS- D.O.B. 03-18-2004; SAMUEL MCCOY- D.O.B. 03-30-2006. 

 

Dear Grandsons,

My Precious Love Ones; My Grand-babies, I love you all dearly more than words can express! I’m extremely heartbroken for the way that this great country that we live in. How the Human Services Agency – foster care division have treated this case so unprofessional and leaving you grandchildren in this failing system, as if you have no family where you can go to! I am sorry! I AM SO SORRY!

I Pray for our family daily and continuously! My grandsons you are not forgotten! You’re not left behind, either!

Hi! My Sweet and Precious Babies: Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, Eric, and Little Sam! As always my mind isn’t far from you all. Life isn’t the same without you all. Each and everyday it is painful. I hope and pray that you all are being treated with love and respect and not as if you kids are throw aways or rejected. Because you grandchildren are definitely not in that category.

I love you! You have a Grandmother that loves you grandchildren dearly and misses all of you like crazy. You all are not forgotten! You have family that loves you. You are loved, wanted and missed! I continue to cry over you all- the deep pain that I have on a daily basis because how you all are going through this.

 

 I am your grandmother — FARINA THOMPSON.  I love you all boys (teenagers now) with all my heart. You are my grandsons and that will never change. I love you very much! You’re LOVED, WANTED, AND MISSED! You! each and every one of you have a place to call home. You have a caring and loving Grandmother that dropped everything and relocated to the mid-west to Oklahoma for 4 years. I fought for all of you. That I done in deed! I have the proof to show my work – that I came for all of you.

My grandsons’ I will never forget you! There’s not a day that I don’t think of you all. I look at your pictures. I miss you so much. I worry about all of you. What happen to you grandchildren- should have never taken place. It’s an awful tragedy. Our family, our home and our lives have been interrupted, scarred, shattered, damaged — we will never be the same.

Truly you all should be home with me your grandmother! This was an injustice served by the Oklahoma Family Court under the Judge Named– Richard W. Kirby in courtroom “A”. I am so sorry that folks can’t leave their personal opinions & behavior outside their place of work. Because of that it has been ten (10) very long years and so many long sleepless nights and pillows full of tears! So much have been taken from us because of the ruthless, heartless, and people who have no sense and regards for the basic value of FAMILY CORE -THE FAMILY UNIT.  It wasn’t justice that took place in the court room of that presiding Judge– Richard Kirby! No it wasn’t! As well as Jane Brown- DA; Ryan Hauser- PD; and the initial DHS child worker– Tara Bone.

My grandsons which you all will always be my babies. I am so sorry that you children were subjected to all that you have in your childhood lives. A terrible and painful experience for you grandchildren. I am heartbroken over it too! We will have alot of healing to do once we all come together & be reunited as a family again after all of this time of being away from the ones that love you!

You grandchildren are dear to me! So very dear to my heart! I love you. I love you. Family is key and you grandchildren have family. You will always be my family!

 

Love Always & Forever, Your Grandmother,

Farina Maria Thompson of Reno, Nevada.

 

 

 

 

Dear Grandsons! Case # JD-06-180; K# 20347104,

Dear Grandsons!

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, and Eric!

This is your grandmother, Farina Thompson!

I love you and miss you each and everyday. It’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about you boys.

It’s been 6 years and 3 months that our family has been interrupted by this tragedy.

I am heartbroken that we are not together. You boys are all in school, and growing up in  the foster care system in Oklahoma.

I am sorry that you grandchildren are having to deal with and experience this type of life. My grandsons! Grandma, wants you all home. I have not given up on you boys.I love you boys with all my heart! With every ounce of blood that’s flowing through my body and veins.

It’s a shame, For the system has failed you boys, The system is broken. You boys should of been home. Unfortunately, the folks in Authority that’s holding their positions have abused their privilege and has caused us more pain and suffering.

My precious and dear grandsons, I send my love, hugs and kisses. Trust me! You’re not forgotten! Not by a long-shot. You boys have family tha loves you and it’s important for you all to know that.

I have been writing to you all, for the longest. I am not sure if you boys are even getting your letters. So! I have decided to go to the Internet, to put it out there. I want all of you boys to know the truth, and not what those people of Oklahoma and within the DHS  and others may or may not be telling you boys.

I am your grandmother! That will never ever change! I pray for our family everyday. You children, have been through a lot during these last past 6 years and 3 months. I am with you all in heart and spirit. Grandma! loves you all a great deal.

It’s wrong for how the State of Oklahoma has treated you boys and our family in the case. The judge himself, has done this out of vengeance, toward me. Grandsons! I came prepared to getting you and your brothers out of the foster care system. Everything was, however denied by Judge. I want you children to know that.

You boys are from California, and not from Oklahoma.

Well Grandsons, I will always love you! You do have your grandmother. You all are not forgotten!

I pray that will be seeing each other soon in the future, That God will give us peace while we are enduring this awful life’s tragedy.

Foster care isn’t no place for children, who have family that’s want them. My grandsons! I am so sorry that you have had to go through this, the injustice by the Oklahoma Family Court and the Oklahoma DHS, they both have failed you and our family.

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric, you boys  have a strong grandmother, that will not let this be swept under the rug. It’s an Injustice how the Judge – Judge Kirby have let the DHS system do this! Not Only that! He too! have done his dirt as well. That’s the reason we haven’t seen each other.

We haven’t had a visit since in 2 years. Since February 16 2010.

My grandsons, you are my life, my family  and you are not forgotten.

Love Always and Forever,

Your Grandmother

Farina M Thompson

My Grandsons

My grandsons! I have not forgotten you children! I love you with all my heart! 6 years we have been separated! Because people who have abused their authority and have not an ounce of heart or feelings for family and family values.

I am saddened at how those people can get away with this– How they can destroy the lives of children and their families.

My grandchildren! I will always be your grandmother and that will never change! I love you boys with every ounce of blood that’s flowing through my veins. I am praying for our family. That this will be over soon! For us to be reunited as a family once again.

For you grandchildren of mine,  I will always be here for you. I love you with all my heart. God Bless You My  Grandchildren! My precious grandchildren, you are not forgotten! I carry you all in my heart each and everyday! I love you so much! Always and Forever!

6 Years And Grandchildren Still Aren’t Home

6 years and my grandchildren still aren’t home!

Family first and reunification is the key! However! From what I’ve observed from this experience with Oklahoma DHS! They cold-hearted! Black hearted! They have not made an effort to place my grandchildren with me.

They will not even give me information in regards to my grandchildren.

They continue to deny me my grandchildren.

They will not and have not worked with me to resolve this matter.

I gets no phone calls to be able to hear my grandchildren’s voice.

I haven’t seen them in over 2 years now, since 2-16-2010.

My grandchildren aren’t allowed to respond to any of the letters that I send them.

I gets no pictures of my grandchildren.

The judge is against me as well as the dhs.

They continue to deny me anything in regards to my grandchildren.

They have barred me, excluded me  from the court to hear and see what’s going on with my grandchildren.

My grandchildren has been out of the home for over 6 years now. I want my grandchildren I’ve expressed that from day one, Yet! they have ignored my request.

I can’t even get a court date for the next court hearings.

It’s about the children! They shouldn’t have to be in the foster care system for any length of time especially when family are willing to take them.

My grandchildren are now the ages of — 15 years, 13 years, 12 years, 11 years, and 8 years of age.

I’m prepared to take my grandchildren! As I have always been ready and available. However, the Oklahoma dhs foster care system and Oklahoma Family Court has denied me my grandchildren and my rights as a grandparent.

My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed. They have family that loves them. My grandchildren are suffering at the hands of these people who have and continue to abuse their authority and power!

It’s an injustice! This has to stop! Pass the word of this Child Stealing agency– foster care is a legal children stealing ring! As long as foster care agencies can snatch up your children and get away with it, They will not stop, because the government is allowing this to happen. This is America! Anything can happen! It’s not right! But they continue to do it as long as they can get away with it.

In closing, I’m asking everyone to please pray for me and my family. That my grandchildren will be reunified with the family. Thank You and God Bless You and Yours.

Appreciate your Prayers,

Thank You

Farina, Grieving Grandmother

 

ALL I WANT IS MY GRANDCHILDREN!

All I want is my grandchildren! My grandchildren have been in the Oklahoma foster care system since March 2 2006.

Since I have been challenged all the way through this ordeal, It’s been nothing but red-tape, coming from both the dhs and the family courts. The way these folks has handled my grandchildren’s case, has been anything but professional.

The family courts has ignored my grandparents rights! As well as my grandchildren’s rights too! Unprofessional behavior for sure.

I haven’t seen my grandchildren in over 2 years! Although I continue to write my grandchildren! I don’t get any response. The dhs and family court will not let my grandchildren write me in return. Nor do they let them call me! I haven’t heard their voices in over 2 years, since our last visit on 2-16-2010.

This has been a total nightmare for us! This is definitely wrong! My grandchildren! They are being shuffled all around in the foster care system, going from one place to the other and from group homes to group homes. Not to mention that my grandchildren are all on medications and labeled. This isn’t stabilization, nor is it in the Best Interest of the child!

I am feeling my grandchildren’s pain and suffering too! The Oklahoma Family Court has failed my grandchildren! As well as the Oklahoma DHS too! I came forth as the grandparent as I should have done. Went to court hearings and all that! But let me tell you! That it wasn’t a walk in the park either! They done me some terrible in the court. Dhs and the rest of the folks that are involved with this case have done nothing but work against me!

A lot of dirt was and still remains in the family court and because of that, my precious grandchildren still remains in the foster care system. My grandchildren should have been home by now. But no the dhs and the family court has denied me every step of the way, everything from denying me a home study to adoption to my guardianship to no visitation or phone calls.

That’s an injustice!

I am family and I am able to care for and raise my grandchildren. I want my grandchildren home with me and out of the foster care system.  This is wrong! It just don’t make any sense. My grandchildren has been in the system far way to long. My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed. They have family that loves them.

All i want is my grandchildren! We have endured so much since my grandchildren were taken. We have lost 6 years that we will never be able to get back. Dhs has stolen 6 years from us, our family.

My grandchildren have been emotionally traumatized, alienated and isolated and don’t forget medicated. My grandchildren, they have a right to see me their grandmother. But their rights has been violated too. They haven’t seen me since 2-16-2010. That’s a long time to not be in touch with me, their grandmother.

Oklahoma has treated us wrong! I am not happy about the way they have went about it  in my grandchildren’s case. It pains me that my precious grandchildren are still in the foster care system, just floating in the system. When they should be home with me with their loving grandmother, where they are loved.

My grandchildren, they mean the world to me. Our life will never ever be the same from this tragedy. Oklahoma has done us wrong! The court system has failed my grandchildren!y

Foster care isn’t no place for children, especially when there is family willing, and able to take care of the children. It’s about family reunification! Giving back the children to their families in a timely and efficient manner. The longer that children remains in the foster care system,  the more emotional damage traumatized they become. Children should be returned to their  family soon as they can be placed.

Children, they do suffer the longer that they remain in the foster care system the more traumatized they become.

My grandchildren, they are my life and my world. I misses them so very much. My only communication with them are through letters. Then I’m not sure if they are even getting the letters that I send them. I love them dearly.

All I want is my grandchildren home with me and out of the foster care system!

Oklahoma DHS , Foster Care and the Oklahoma Family Court are misusing and abusing their power. They are in my opinion doing whatever they feel like and that’s just not right. Because of this my grandchildren are suffering and remains in the foster care system. It’s just not right!

 

 

 

 

DEAR GRANDSONS!

My Dear Grandsons!

My precious grandchildren! Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric, You boys mean the world to me. I miss all of you very much. You all are loved, wanted and missed. It’s not a day that I don’t think about you and miss all of you.

My grandchildren! I never thought this would drag out as long as this has! I thought that the family courts would have done the right thing for our family! But it did no such thing!

I pray daily for our family and your reunification back home!

I send my love, hugs and kisses.

Miss you lots’

Love Always

Your Grandmother

Farina

A SYSTEM BROKEN!

My grandchildren, that I adore very much has not been able to contact me what so ever, since they have been in foster care in Oklahoma. My grandchildren has rights but! They have been ignored by the dhs and the court!

It’s not right for how these people take your children and then don’t want to give them back to you. Everything that I’ve done to get my grandchildren out of the system was ignored and denied all together. My precious grandchildren have endured so much from being in the foster care system.

Family! Family first! Any child in states custody are to be given to the family instead of being kept in the foster care system, just drifting from placement to placement. Well, or so I thought! However I found out different, through my grandchildren’s case!

For the past 6 years I have been without my grandchildren! I worry about them each and everyday. Because of this so much has been taken away from us as a family. The judge himself has denied me everything to get my grandchildren out of the system.

They,dhs and family court refused to give me a home study. Not to mention that my grandchildren hasn’t heard my voice or seen me since 2-16-2010. That’s cruel! That’s what I call the system broken.

The system has failed my grandchildren! Because of that they are still in foster care.

Our lives will never be the same, from this terrible family tragedy.

 

My Precious Grandchildren! You’re not forgotten!

My precious grandchildren! You’re not forgotten!

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq, and Eric!

Since you all were taken, from day one on March 2 2006. My life hasn’t been the same. It’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about all of you. I miss you all very much and I want you to know that I do love you and I am here.

I wish I could hold you and take away the pain that all of you have suffered. It’s not right how the state has handled your case!

My precious grandsons I love you and you do have family!

I pray for our family daily to be strong and for your reunification.

I send my love, hugs, and kisses!

No matter what I will always be your grandmother! That will never change!

Love always

Your grandmother

Farina

 

My Grandsons I love You!

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric,

My dear and precious grandsons! I love you with every ounce of blood that is flowing through my veins in my body. Grandsons, you are not forgotten! No! you are not forgotten! I miss you more than words can describe.

My adorable grandsons! I am and always will be your grandmother! That will never change. I love you! I love you! I carry each and every one of you in my heart! I pray for us every day and every night! I think of you all,  all the time 24/7 and  365 days a year. I will never give up on you! That’s something you can bank on! Count on that!

My grandchildren! you have been through so much in your lives from being in the foster care system! No child should have to be exposed to what you have been subjected to. My grandsons! Grandma loves you deeply! Love you lots!

I send my love, hugs and kisses to my  dear and precious grandsons! I love you more than words can describe! Each of you mean the world to me. My life hasn’t been the same since.

The system has failed us as a family and especially has failed you children.  Case # JD- 06-180; kids# 20347104 Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Case date 03*02*2006.

My grandchildren I say a prayer for all of us. For our family! Love you my grandchildren!!

Love Always

Your Grandmother

Farina

Family Rights! Parental Rights! Children’s Rights! And Our Government?

Hi I am Farina Thompson!

A grandmother, that’s been fighting for my 5 precious and adorable grandchildren that were taken and put into foster care back in 2006 of March on the 2nd. They were taken from their mother, my daughter which she no longer has parental rights because eventually she relinquished her parental rights. My grandchildren were taken while they were in school and at the day care. It is troubling so disturbing and just wrong!

I am a grandmother that has been treated wrong! My rights have been violated! My precious grandchildren were taken away from our family and the state of Oklahoma refused to give them back to me. Where is my grandparents rights? Why is the government not helping us grandparents and parents to save and reunite with our children and grandchildren?

For those of you who don’t know of me and this is your first time reading my blog! Well let me start off by saying I appreciate all of you for taking the time to read my blogs.

What’s wrong with our government? They are supposed to be there to those in need! This is very sad and truly emotionally and devastating it is. Why aren’t there any rights in place for the so many families that need help in situation such as what i am having to go through. Where are the parental rights?/ grandparents rights? Not only that where are the children’s rights? Our government is wrong!!!

As long as I have breath in me I will continue to put the word out! Everyone across the world and all around the country needs to know and be aware of how bad this foster care system is bad! How the government isn’t helping the children and the many families that are having to deal with this emotional and devastating crisis in their lives. Such as my self as well!

What Oklahoma has done to me and my dear grandchildren! I am very outraged and emotionally frustrated at the practice and policy of the Oklahoma Department of Human Services/ foster care services unit. They have not helped me at all to place my grandchildren with me! Not what so ever! It’s horrible, just so painful. It’s absolutely corruption in the system. From the judge- Judge Richard W Kirby down to the Oklahoma DHS Supervisor Tara Bone at the NW 10th street office off of Rockwell and 10th Street in Oklahoma City Oklahoma.

I have contacted everyone that I could to shed light on this awful situation. No one would take an interest to look into the matter! All the way to the Oklahoma State Capitol from the Governor’s office – both; the current – Mary Fallin and the past – Brad Henry. I wrote them so much. However, all if received was the general response, in other words they gave me the brush off. My pain and suffering didn’t matter to them! Why because they have their babies and little ones home with them. The government only cares about the constituents when they are trying to get elected or re-elected. That’s all, that’s the way that I see it.

I wrote to some of the states representatives many times, some responded some didn’t. The same too that goes to the states senators as well. It’s a bunch of red tape!  I wrote to the American Bar Association as well to request assistance in this matter but was only given referrals. Not only that I have written to the Rainbow Coalition, and received a response but no help was given.

I was denied every step of the way of fighting to get my grandchildren out of the Oklahoma foster care system, So much and I had attorneys that I had paid for to represent me.  This is just wrong! No way right at all! Even the Judge has been against me! I am so frustrated at all of these eccentric people! Truly disturbing it is!  My grandchildren they have been just going from one foster placement to another and from group home to group home! That’s not good for them. They should be home with me, their maternal and biological grandmother, it’s just that simple!  They have been in the system from March 2 2006. When will this pain and suffering end? My grandsons have been alienated and isolated from me. Since my grandchildren were taken and put into the foster care system, we have not had regular family visits at all.  I haven’t seen them since 2-16-2010 for over 2 long years. My grandsons I haven’t seen them for over 2 very long and painful years. No one can imagine what we are going through because of the state of Oklahoma, their injustice practice and unprofessional behavior.

I relocated from the state of Nevada to the state of Oklahoma out of the love for my family, my loving and adorable grandsons. I only relocated to get my grandbabies that’s all!!!. So being the loving grandmother and responsible as I am I moved. Even with everything that I have done to make it happen!! Oklahoma has been corrupt, evil and hateful carrying a vengeful grudge against me. The judge — Judge Richard W Kirby of Oklahoma ,wouldn’t even order Oklahoma DHS to give me a home study so that I would be able to get my precious grandchildren out of the foster care system. Oh yeah! That’s so wrong! Because of that Judge and DHS Supervisor Tara Bone my grandchildren aren’t home!

I want everyone to know that Oklahoma DHS on 2-8-2011, requested to the judge that I be excluded from further court hearings of my grandchildren’s case. The judge he granted the request. That’s just an injustice! How can the government truly do this to the children’s families, that’s fighting to get them out of the system? This is crazy! My grandchildren are continuing to suffer by being in the foster care system! This is a screwed up government!  This isn’t right! Not fair! It’s corruption. It’s corruption!! Because of this my grandbabies are having to be with strangers, away from their loving and caring grandmother who loves them very much.

I won’t stop my persistence and determination to spread the word about this horrible interruption by the government allowing the state’s government authority to do this to the many families such as me and my grandsons’. This corruption is destroying and emotionally damaging the many children that are taken by these people. Children! They are precious and innocent and shouldn’t have to be subjected to this type of life and behavior. Not at all period!!!!

I am just in shock at how the government has allowed this to happen!!How they are treating our children and denying them the right to have visitation with me! I am in so much pain at the lost of my grandbabies! Believe me they are loved, wanted and missed! They are not forgotten! I pray continuously for me and my grandchildren, for our family that we will be a family soon. That this will be over!!!!

My grandchildren’s ages are now: Melvin – 15- last december, Michael – 13- february 25, Mizael – 12- january 1, Teriq – 10 april 21. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What’s wrong with our government? It’s awful!  How can they, The government,  do this to the families of  America? How can any government do this to our children! To our future adults of America? To our leaders???????? What’s wrong with the government, that’s running our country? It’s a mess? In my opinion they are destroying our families?

This case is being held in the county of Oklahoma County. City of Oklahoma City. Date of case Beginning — MARCH 2 2006

Case Name— MAY, DAVIS. BENJAMIN, WALKER

Case NO#— JD- 06-180

OK KIDS#– 20347104

Mother—– Jamira N May- McCoy

Grandmother—Farina M Thompson

 

ps. I am asking everyone to please pray for me and my grandsons. That we will soon be out of this emotional crisis and be reunited as a family soon. Thank You and God Bless You and Yours. Have A Very Blessed Day! God Bless You!!