Msfarina603's Blog

2012/06/04

I LOVE YOU! MY GRANDSONS!


My dear and precious grandchildren! you’re not forgotten!

I love you so very much! I will always be your grandmother, that will never change, no matte what.

You boys are loved, wanted and missed. You have family that loves and cares a great deal for you all.

I am so hurt, that you all are having to go through this awful and terrible situation.  I just want to hold you all and take away all of the pain.  My grandsons, I love you more than words can describe. With every ounce of blood that’s flowing through my body, in my veins.

You boys, I carry you in my heart and spirit, since you all have been taken away, my life hasn’t been the same. NOR! will it ever be. I love you truly and miss you more.

The judge has failed you and our family.

My grandchildren you are forever and always on my mind. My grandsons I love you and always will.

I send you my love, hugs and kisses. I am truly sorry that you children have had to go through this Horrible Nightmare.

Love Always and Forever,

Your Grandmother,

Farina Thompson

Family Is Key to Strengthening the Children! Not Alienation, or Isolation, Definitely Not Separation!


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2012/02/19

Oklahoma DHS and Family Court Judge!


Hello my name is Farina Thompson! For nearly 6 years! Come March 2, 2012, it will be 6 whole and long years, that my precious and dear grandchildren were taken by OKDHS and put in the Oklahoma foster care system!

CASE# JD-06-180, MAY, DAVIS, BENJAMIN, WALKER; OKDHS-KIDS# 20347104; Judge; Richard W Kirby; DHS- Tara j Bone.

Since they have been in there, They have been shuffled around and bouncing from one placement to the other and also they, each and every one of them are in different placement! Also and don’t forget! That Oklahoma DHS has alienated them from their biological family. They haven’t had any visitation for the past 2 years! Also no regular visitation from day one of the beginning!

My grandchildren are in group homes and foster families’ and not to forget, that the state has them on medications too. My grandchildren have had close to one dozen social workers/ caseworkers!

What is so devastating is the fact that the Oklahoma State Agency has kept me and my precious grandchildren apart separated! That’s been since day one of them being taken on March 2 2006. I haven’t seen my grandbabies for the past 2 years and some months! Truly devastating!!!!!

This has been a horrible situation that my grandchildren are going through! It’s very emotional and painful for all of us! Please keep us in prayer. I thank you! I thank you. My grandchildren! You are never forgotten! Trust your grandmother! That you are loved, wanted and missed. My grandsons you all are very dear and precious to me! Yes you are! Each and every one of you touches my heart! Love you lot’s.

To my precious grandchildren! My prayers are of and for you! For us as a family!

Loving, caring and Grieving Grandmother

Farina

 

My Precious Grandchildren I love and Miss You All


My precious grandchildren! How I love you boys so much!

My grandchildren! How i miss and love you boys so very much. It’s not a day or night that goes by, that I don’t think about you all and miss all of you. My grandsons! I want you all to know that I have not given up hope! I am still here for you grandchildren! Also my grandsons I want you all to know that I do want you boys and that I have a large enough home for all of you. It’s filled with every for all of you. I moved from Nevada for the love that I have for all of you.

My grandsons! Oklahoma has fought me every step of the way in getting you boys out of the system. From the judge on down has denied me the rights to visitation with all of you. I’ve been denied adoption, visitation rights, as well as a home study of the 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage home, that’s over 2,000 square feet.

I also want you boys to know that I have been writing continuously to all of you. I hope and pray that you all have been getting all the letters that I have been sending. I love all of you so very much. I send my love, hugs and kisses. My grandsons I love you and I want you to know that you have family that loves and misses you as well. I pray for our family on a regular basis!

Melvin, Michael, Mizael, Teriq and Eric! My dear and precious grandchildren I your grandmother, loves,misses and wants you all home with me. I am financially established, and has more than enough room for all of you boys! Speaking on you all as siblings! Have you all seen each other lately?

The reason why you grandchildren are home is because of the Oklahoma DHS/ foster care unit. It’s because of the corruption and crookedness that is going on in that organization. Also I want you boys to know that the Oklahoma DHS has told lies in court and on their paperwork, stating that I have a felony from a food stamp case when i was 19 years old, some 30 years ago! That is false, my grandsons! So anyhow, Oklahoma continues to deny me you grandchildren to come live with me because of that! I have proof of that! That I don’t have a felony! For one they could check my military record. But they won’t! Oklahoma just don’t want me to have you all.

Grandsons! I want you all to know that Oklahoma has even tried to put me in jail and was trying to give me a hefty fine! Oklahoma has done us wrong in processing this case of you grandchildren! I want all of you to know that Oklahoma has treated you grandchildren wrong by not letting you boys have visitation with me. Also that they have violated our rights too.

I have on several occasions went to the Oklahoma State Capitol to talk to the folks at the Office. I have went to any and everyone that would listen to our story at how Okdhs/ Oklahoma DHS, how they have treated us and not giving you all to me. How they are just letting you children float in the system, bouncing from one placement to the other.

I continue to write letters to the DHS officials, to the Judge, to the Oklahoma governor, and everyone else that is interested in the foster care system and those interested in the children of the system. My grandsons, I haven’t forgotten about you all. I love you with every ounce of blood that’s flowing through my body. I love you my precious grandchildren.

My grandchildren I am so sorry that you have had to be subjected to this type of life! I feel your pain and suffering. My prayers go out to all of you. I love you boys so much! My grandchildren you are loved, wanted and missed. You have a home to come to. Oklahoma has denied my many requests for you grandchildren to be released to me in my care! Oklahoma are the reason! Oklahoma DHS is the reason why you grandchildren remains in foster care. Oklahoma never did work with me to get you all home! Not any type of help what so ever!

 Grandsons! I love you all and you all are always in my thoughts and prayers. I send my love, hugs and kisses! Grandma! loves all of you so very much.

As I close I ask everyone to please keep me and my grandchildren in prayer, as we are going through a very difficult time in our lives. Please pray for us that we be a family again soon. Thank you very much and God Bless You and Yours!

Loving, caring and grieving Grandmother

Farina Thompson

2011/11/30

Grandmother you can’t have your grandchildren!


Grandmother! You can’t have your grandchildren!!

The state of Oklahoma will not and has not given me my grandsons! According to the Oklahoma Department of Human Services, they say they are requesting my grandchildren for permanent placement. Permanent Placement, that means to be adopted out!!  Their reasoning as they state are because in 1983 I had a food stamp case out of California. Not only that! Oklahoma states that it was a Felony! Which it isn’t true.

There is no way that it is a felony! If that was true, there would be no way that I could ever enlist into the United States Military. I was in the Army. I quartermaster. My MOS — 76v10.

This mess with Oklahoma is absurd! They aren’t helping the situation. Instead they are causing more grief. You mean to tell me because of something as minor as that! It is the reason for them to keep my grandchildren! How ridiculous! That is so heartless and cold-blooded.

My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed! This is wrong! My grandsons have love-ones and family that cares very much about them. Because of a 1983 case, almost 30 years ago,Oklahoma DHS, they are determined to continue to deny me my grandsons, my flesh and blood. This is vengeful, cruelty, and a personal vendetta. Honestly! Because my son-n-law a felon out of California, over 13 years in prison! The judge, Judge Richard Kirby, he gave my youngest grandson to his father, to that very person. Yes! I know he is the Father! I get it! But when the children doesn’t have a parent fighting for them, shouldn’t a grandparent be the next in line to take over? Especially when the grandparent wants the children and are able to provide and care for them?

I just want my grandchildren out of the foster care system. My grandsons! I miss them so much. It is so painful!

Case– May, Davis, Benjamin, Walker; Case # JD-06-180; Judge Richard W Kirby; Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; County of Oklahoma. March 2 2006 children taken into DHS foster care.

Oklahoma Department of Human Services has done me and my grandchildren a raw deal. It’s an injustice! It’s not right! What so ever! Oklahoma is corrupt and the system is truly broken.

Please pray for me and my precious grandchildren. Please pray that we be a family and be reunited so that we can go on about our lives. We need to move on and put this behind us. Please pray for us.

Thank You and God Bless You & Yours

Grieving Grandmother

Farina Maria Thompson

 

2011/02/14

Grandmother persecuted


 

There’s so many nick names that our grandchildren has for calling us as grandparents. There’s hundred of names that so many grandchildren calls their loving grandma and grandpa.

When the DHS DIRECTOR- HOWARD HENDRICK, DHS SUPERVISOR- TARA J BONE, DHS DA- JANE BROWN, and the ASSOCIATE DISTRICT JUDGE RICHARD W KIRBY, lose their way to do the right thing. Then that brings about corruption. It is about the children and getting them out of the system as fast and soon as possible.

5 years to bring closure to a case it very damaging to my babies. Because my grandsons, they know that Grandma is here. That’s not right at all! It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

My grandsons are loved, wanted and missed by all of our family. They have a loving home to come to.

I have relocated over 1800+ miles to be close to my boys, and to have regular visits with them.

The state has taken that away. From the beginning there were never any regular visits.

They have kept my grandsons away from me and they haven’t had any phone calls either.

Family reunification is the key and yet, As they stress it so much. Why are my grandchildren not home yet?

I have a 3 bedroom 2 bath 2 car garage home and it is over 2,000 square feet. I’ve more than enough space for my grandsons. This is wrong.

Everyone knows how rough it is for children to be left in foster care. Especially any length of time.

There is a very big problem and something needs to be done about it!

I just want my grandchildren out of the foster care system. That’s all i want is for them to be home back in my arms. With loving family as i am here and will not stop my journey to get them home.

There are Statutes and the Oklahoma Administrative Codes that aren’t being enforced. My grandchildren should have been home many moons ago.

Our civil rights and human rights has been violated. My grandbabies has been victimized by the system as well as our whole family.

I’ve spent many countless hours on the internet searching for case information, and to learn as much as i can about foster care and case-law in regards to grandchildren and grandparents. Just all issues dealing with family court judges and getting educated about the players involved with my grandsons case.

I have asked for help from many agencies, knocked on may doors, sent hundreds of faxes, and rung a many telephones, because what it going on here in the State of Oklahoma isn’t justice at all, not for along shot.

These persons that are in a position to destroy families and many children’s lives are cold-hearted folks. They think that they are untouchable. They are above the law. So to speak and by that they can abuse their authority. In the mean time can leave a trail of destruction.

It’s supposed to be about the children, In my grandsons case. That is no longer the priority. As i see it. They are focusing on me. I’m just a loving and caring grandmother, that refuses to give in to them, so that they can do what they want with my grandsons.

I’ve been targeted, and this is now a racist issue, a personal vendetta.

The Judge – Richard W Kirby, DA – Jane Brown, DHS Supervisor – Tara J Bone, and DHS Director – Howard Hendrick – has lost their way of processing and now has made it even more difficult on my grandsons, by not giving me my grandsons.

Priority should be – family reunification. Family connection and bonding. Not destroying the children’s lives. The court system and dhs has alienated me grandbabies. We haven’t seen each other in quite some time now.

My grandbabies, they all know how much i love and miss them. The family courts know that I love and miss my grandbabies. This is tragedy and emotional painful for us.

Everyone as mentioned before, they are going home every night to their babies, grandbabies, and look forward to seeing them as they walk through the door. How would they feel, If they couldn’t see their babies, or granddbabies little faces? How would they feel to be going through this ordeal as me and my grandbabies?

It’s a nightmare! A real life Horror! I wouldn’t wish this on anyone.

As of 12/2009 I was denied all access to court documentation in regards to my grandsons case. I have not been allowed to receive any court papers, showing the up coming court dates. It’s only been by word of mouth. That’s not good enough.

Anyway I’m asking everyone to please pray for me and my grandchildren. We have been going through this for some time now. My grandchildren and our family has been victimized by the Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS.

Please keep the prayers coming, I thank you and do so appreciate it. God Bless.

My family, we need closure.

All I want is, to see my grandbabies,hug and be there for my grandchildren.

Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers.

Love, Peace and Blessings. God Bless to all. Amen!

Thank you for taking the time to read our family story of enduring pain.

 

We as grandparents has that special bond of connection with our grandchildren. Being in our grandbabies lives are so valuable for them and us as that role model to our little ones.

Here in the state of Oklahoma where I have been for the past 2.5 – 3 years, out of love for my precious grandsons. I am being persecuted because I am fighting for my grandchildren. I will not shut up about the exposure of what’s taking place in the oklahoma family court.

My grandsons have been in the foster care system since March 2 2006. I’m the only one that’s fighting for them. We are a family and they are close to my heart. We are blood.

This is a living nightmare for me and my family.

I’m concerned about my grandsons that’s in the Oklahoma Foster Care States System. This is un called for. When children has been taken by the state, they should be trying everything to place the children with their biological family members. Here i am their maternal and biological grandmother. What they do is hinder the process. This case has been dragged out for 5 years. March 2 2011 will be five years.

I am not a felon, never been to prison. I am all that these children has to appear in court.

It’s about family and children, to be reunited to end this horrible tragedy. It’s supposed to be. You’d think.

GRANDMOTHER/ GRANDMA/ NANNIE/ NANA

2011/01/11

Newsvine – FOUR YEARS TEN MONTHS ONE WEEK TWO DAYS


Because my grandchildren means the world to me. I’m letting the whole world know how me and my babies has been treated in this Red Dirt State. How we have been totally treated like as if family values isn’t what this great nation was built on.

The truth is that every politician has been spilling their inside about Family Values, and The Family Unit, that’s how they get appointed and or elected.

But when our babies, our children are taken away from our valued families its not important to them.

So i want the whole world to know that if the government continues to allow this to happen know one will be safe nowhere. The agencies will be free to come in our homes as they done my daughter.

(Really they took the children from school and daycare)

But from all of this, they will be able to knock down doors and just take the american children and be free to do it.

Say No To DHS and Stand up for your rights. Let my pain and suffering help you to arm yourself with everything to equip and be ready. Stop DHS at the Door. Don’t be fooled. Don’t let them in.

It only takes a phone to have your children taken/stolen. From that point on your life will never be the same.

Take it from someone who is going through it right now.

Love to all and God Bless.

Remember to be strong and keep the faith and keep your head up.

Newsvine – FOUR YEARS TEN MONTHS ONE WEEK TWO DAYS.

2011/01/10

The Family Unit


The family unit is the most valuable foundation that one can be blessed with. It’s just an outrageous shame before God at how our babies can be taken from us and the government has allowed the folks to this.
The family unit is what our strength is build on. Without family how else would the universe be as it is now. Family is the ultimate relationship to have. Without family you have noone. When our children are in foster care and you have no contact with them. It not only casues emotional pain for you, but imagine what our babies are going through. This can cause serious emotional problems to our kids and grandkids. Because they are wondering why their love-ones hasn’t been to see them. Not so much as a phone call to hear each others voice. You know what i mean?
The family unit is very special and i disagree with how the government agencies and organization are killing off our relationships with babies.
My grandchildren has been in the Oklahoma Foster Care System since March 2 2006 and we have not had regular family visits not even telephone calls.
We haven’t had any family holidays or get togethers nor any family birthdays together as a family unit in the 4 years 10 months and 1 week since they were taken by Oklahoma DHS.

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