Oklahoma Foster Care System!
Case Name- May, Davis, Benjamin, Walker
Case Number JD- 06-180
Date of Case – March 2 2006
County of Oklahoma, City of Oklahoma City
Judge- Associate District Judge Richard W. Kirby
I have 5 adorable and precious grandsons, that are in the Oklahoma Foster Care System. They have been in there for the past 6 years, since March 2 2006. It has been a long hard and emotional time for our family. My dear grandsons have been away from the family far to long!From Day one of my grandchildren being taken by the Oklahoma DHS Foster Care System, it has been nothing but problems with that agency. My grandchildren hasn’t had any regular family visits nor have they been able to see me their matenal and biological grandmother on a regular basis. My precious grandsons have been alienated, isolated and traumatized by the Oklahoma Department of Human Services Foster Care Division.
What this state has done to me and my grandchildren, our family! It’s like something that you would see on Lifetime! This has been a living nightmare for our family! This is truly an injustice! Truly corrupt! No doubt about it! Everything that this state agency has put me and my grandsons through has been horrible, it’s been a vengence act, it’s been a personal vendetta, it’s just wrong! Plain Wrong!!
My grandsons are in the Oklahoma foster care system, all in separate placement and in group homes as well, they are being shuffled, shafted and bounced about in the foster care system going from one placement to the other. That’s not good my grandsons! It is certainly not in the best interest of the children to be in the system being bounced around like that! I am family! I am their maternal and biological grandmother! I want my grandchildren home with me. I love my grandchildren! My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed! They have family that love them.
It’s not right for how the Oklahoma foster care agency, those in the office that’s writing the reports and the judge how they have handled this case of my grandchildren. Judge Richard W Kirby and Oklahoma DHS Supervisor Tara Bone has been the #1 culprit in keeping me and my grandchildren apart and separated.
The Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS they both failed my grandchildren! The system failed! The System is Broken! Broken!
Oklahoma Family Court and Oklahoma DHS! They are supposed to be there to help the families and children, not to destroy the families and the children’s lives. Since I have been in the Oklahoma Family Court having dealings with the Oklahoma DHS! I now have a different view of how the system actually does not work! Being personally involved from being their to get my grandchildren out of the system! I have seen these folks abuse their authority with their employment position that they hold.
They have destroyed so many lives, homes and caused many, many children to have no sense of direction or how to love. Children in foster care shouldn’t be removed from their own biological family without communication during foster placement. Such as my grandchildren they know that I am in Oklahoma! However! we have not had a visit in over 2 years, since February of 2010. Now! That’s just wrong! My grandchildren they have a right to have contact visits with me! I’m their only maternal and biological grandmother!
Placement for children that’s in foster care! They should first go to family members! My grandsons! They have not had that right due to them. Also! Since my grandsons have been in the Oklahoma foste care system, they have been heavily medicated to keep them from talking and asking to go home. So while my grandsons are medicated, alienated and isolated, they still remain in the foster care system. They rights have been violated!
My grandsons should have been home by now! Not continue to be in the Oklahoma foster care system. This has been an injustice for me and my grandchildren. The system has failed them! The system has failed us as a family! This isn’t justice! This isn’t justice! My grandbabies are suffering due to the unprofessionalism of these black hearted aka cold hearted folks of the Oklahoma Family Court and the Oklahoma DHS Foster Care System. 6 years! It’s just not right!
I have traveled from Reno, Nevada to Here to Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and these folks have continued to deny me my grandchildren! I have rented a nice 3 bedroom home, 2 bath, 2 car garage and it’s over 2 ,000 square feet. Fully furnished, I have done that, and it’s ready for my grandchildren.
Yet! Judge Richard W Kirby, he’s the associate district judge, has denied everything that I presented to the courts through attorneys! From the request of the major culprit being Tara Bone of Oklahoma DHS, she by the way was the initial case worker on the case from day one of the case- March 2 2006.
There have been a numerous amont of disturbing issues with the way that the State of Oklahoma has processed my grandsons case! One of the big ones would be that- Oklahoma DHS requested that I be no longer included in the court hearings for my grandchildren. That was on February 8 2011. That was a dirty rotten unethical and illegal act. Truly an injustice for my grandsons and our family. I have been fighting for my grandchildren and these people here in Oklahoma have not helped me to get my grandsons home. Infact! They even tried to put me in jail! Yes! the DA, Jane Brown, she even wanted to put me in jail! I had to get an attorney to stay out of jail. All because I have exercised and expressed my due rights by exposing what this state has done and continue to do to me and my grandchildren! How they continue to deny me my grandchildren. I just want my grandbabies out of the Oklahoma Foster Care System.
Even the judge have not ordered Oklahoma DHS to do a Home Study of my home! He has stated in court some time ago that he will not order the agency – The OKLAHOMA DHS FOSTER CARE to do a Home Study! This is for my grandsons to get them out of the system! Yet! the Judge- The Associate District Judge Richard W Kirby will not do his job and be Just and order the HOME STUDY so that my grandsons will be returned to the family that loves them and the home where they belong. My grandsons are loved, wanted and missed!
The State Of Oklahoma – It’s Family Courts and the Oklahoma DHS foster care system has failed my grandchildren and our family! Because of this my grandsons have lost 6 years from being intact with their biological family and to this day they still remain here in the Oklahoma Department Human Services Foster Care System. They are floating in the system, just bouncing about! With no family contact with their biological family. No phone calls or contact! NO family visits! No nothing! Why because the Judge- Judge Richard W Kirby and the Oklahoma DHS-Tara J Bone, has neglected to do their jobs to the fullest capabilities and being honest and just to those that they serve!
They all have not serve the community as they are expected to do! This is including the Court! DHS! Therapist! CASA! Everyone that are involved with this case. Everyone of them have failed my precious grandchildren! And our family!
I am financially established totally! I am independent! I don’t need any assistance from any agency in taking care grand of my grandchildren! I don’t need not no ones hard-earned money to provide for my dear and precious grandsons! NO! Not anything at all.
My grandchildren are loved, wanted and missed! As a grandmother! I will never ever forget my dear and precious grandsons! They are not forgotten! Never! Will they ever be forgotten! My life and my family’s life hasn’t been the same, since they were taken from their home and family on March 2 2006.
Passed the word, Spread the word, Tweet the word, That Oklahoma Foster Care and Oklahoma Family Court is Corrupt! Judge Richard Kirby isn’t helping families, he hasn’t done his job as it is described in his OATH!
Children deserve to be with family and not in the foster care system for years and years. My grandchildren have been in the system for the past 6 years!! Grandparents deserve to have that right to help their grandchildren. Judge Richard W Kirby denied me that right!! The System is broken! Broken!
I haven’t hugged my grandchildren in over 2 years. Nor have I seen their little smiling faces! We have lost so much in these past 6 years. Oklahoma DHS has stolen 6 years of our family’s life. Truly a horrible Nightmare!
A mother’s love and A grandmother’s love lasts forever!
In closing! I am asking everyone to please keep me and my grandsons in prayer! For we are experiencing some emotional pain by the system that is broken! For they have kept my grandchildren in foster care for 6 long years with no contact with family! Please pray that my grandchildren will be released soon, be reunited with family. Thank you for your prayers and God Bless you and yours.
Thank You and Have a Blessed Day!
From A Grieving Grandmother
Farina Thompson
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